MsNobody

1 in 4 people Will die Single

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1 hour ago, Jodistrict said:

Lonliness is a pathology.  Human beings were meant to live with each other.  The fact that so many people rationalize loneliness as being normal shows the deep sickness and unsustainability of Western capitalism.

 

 

The highest suicide rates are in poor and/or non-Western countries.

 


Nothing will prevent Willy.

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I've been single all my life basically, realized there's no true love here. And human love is based on survival, if i was born in this world and have to survive and care about my resources and time, i rather stay single. That's why i'm retired at 31. There's no point wasting your life working till your 68 taking care of of others. The human love is based on survival. Ones you go more within, you realize everyone is you and get these energies automatically. This world is pointless and was probably made by god to forget itself in the working mode and survival. Also realized that you're "it" or you're "love" yourself and there's basically only being. Everyone is an actor in the survival game, chasing hopeless dreams and happiness in the eternal, you exist forever.

You also have to keep in mind that the more you get attached to things the more harder it is for your consciousness to develop or grow, you have to remember that eventually everyone has to let go of their loved ones to progress further, and the grief will be insane because you realize it was just a game and you didn't love your loved ones enough, they were just part of the enviroment/game.

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2 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

I've been single all my life basically, realized there's no true love here. And human love is based on survival, if i was born in this world and have to survive and care about my resources and time, i rather stay single. That's why i'm retired at 31. There's no point wasting your life working till your 68 taking care of of others. The human love is based on survival. Ones you go more within, you realize everyone is you and get these energies automatically. This world is pointless and was probably made by god to forget itself in the working mode and survival. Also realized that you're "it" or you're "love" yourself and there's basically only being. Everyone is an actor in the survival game, chasing hopeless dreams and happiness in the eternal, you exist forever.

You also have to keep in mind that the more you get attached to things the more harder it is for your consciousness to develop or grow, you have to remember that eventually everyone has to let go of their loved ones to progress further, and the grief will be insane. 

You are on point with that. But it sounds depressing, your articulation is rather nihilistic as well. You rejected the illusion but with it many possibilites of the dream as well. 

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3 minutes ago, Jannes said:

You are on point with that. But it sounds depressing, your articulation is rather nihilistic as well. You rejected the illusion but with it many possibilites of the dream as well. 

Only in your own mind because you can't handle the truth. I am at a level of consciousness/unity where i literally feel others skin/body/clothes etc.  You're all chasing relationships because you're hopeless for happiness when it is within

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2 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

Only in your own mind because you can't handle the truth. I am at a level of consciousness/unity where i literally feel others skin/body/clothes etc.  You're all chasing relationships because you're hopeless for happiness when it is within

Good for you!

I am just sceptical when I hear someone say they are above basic human needs, but if thats authentic to you then thats great. 

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@MsNobody

1 in 4 gen X person is single, most of them went through a divorce. So for gen Z and gen alpha 1 in 3 will be more likely.

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6 minutes ago, Jannes said:

Good for you!

I am just sceptical when I hear someone say they are above basic human needs, but if thats authentic to you then thats great. 

Being above is not how you think happends for me, i have my human needs but it all happends within because i'm all. Relationships are part of the illussion of you chasing something for happiness because you live in seperation. The only true love relationship you will ever have is with yourself or God.

And ofcourse keep in mind that i'm not saying that it is bad or wrong to have a relationship, as it is part of your temporary human experience. I'm just making you aware of the negative side-effects, specially when it will be time to let go to progress further. Also keep in mind that the relationship with others that you have is illusory and they're part of the enviroment or your own progression in consciousness,  so they will just play the game along, you will never have a real connection with them, but you will think that because you're part of the system.

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By the way, the abysmal fertility rate in the developed world is mostly caused by the fall in coupling! Read dr Alice Evans's studies.

This will have serious economic and cultural consequences in a few decades.

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I been single now for quite some time.
I haven’t really made an effort to date or approach girls.
 

When I moved to the city my first priority socially was friendships. I’ve made some friends now, but they are shallow and easily replaceable. it’s been five years, and I’m still disappointed in my social situation but it’s probably time to get more serious with girls. 
 

Whatever I’m doing isn’t working so better change it up. 

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21 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I've had several over the last few years, but the comptibility wasn't there.

I have been following your work for more than 8 years and I don't want to outright hate you or put you up in the pedestal .I Hope that you find a girl in the future who is truly compatible with you.

As per the topic I have been single my whole life (I'm turning 25) with a few girls interested in me/receptive but still there were compatibility issues between me and them. For example- The most recent girl who was receptive to me was coming from a financially unstable home and also I didn't like her fully.Therefore I didn't moved things forward with her.

So yeah compatibility matters.

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On 11/1/2025 at 0:04 AM, MsNobody said:

@How to be wise I dont think its much an issue with procreation itself, sexual energy goes beyond sexuality, it's raw creation energy, if you are not horny you are not healthy, and not only horny in the sexual sense, but a deep desire to live life, to go out there ad build something. I believe this is missing in the new generation.

Also the majority of men dont take care of themselves, dont exercise, dont do routine blood tests, eat lots of fast food, or food in plastic containers, burn their dopamine pathways watching porn, you would think that only men that are older have low T, but its a general problem. 

That lifestyle isn't as bad as you think. I'm a 20-something guy living that exact routine right now, and I imagine my T is very high because I'm very creative, motivated and easily aroused.

Like you said, being horny is good, it's like your lifeforce right? (Speaking metaphorically). So if porn can help you get aroused to have sex or even masturbate, no harm in that. And the release of orgasming actually gives me energy and makes me more receptive and sensitive to pleasure from other things.

Fast food also isn't that bad honestly, as long as you don't eat a lot of it. A Chipotle burrito, McDonalds burger, or medium pizza are pretty low on calories, and nowadays a lot smaller than they used to be. Honestly I think it's worse to drink a bunch of soda, eat at a greasy spoon or bar food or candy/ice cream everyday. The majority of people eat fast food regularly, even super fit people, in those small portions they give you nowadays. And as long as you eat it in moderation, you're fine.

Exercise is only important if you really want to be fit. If you don't mind being normal weight or even slightly overweight, heavy exercise isn't neccesary as long as you watch what you eat. The key is to be active in general. I go on walks almost everyday and don't sit around for long. I stay on my feet and keep it moving.

Obviously I can't speak for every man, and for some that lifestyle could be doing damage but I'm doing just fine and my last blood test was perfect. I also drink a lot of water (it's my main drink), so that could be a big factor in why I'm able to get away with all this.

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On 11/1/2025 at 6:33 AM, How to be wise said:

It will never be forgotten.

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People got upset over this?.... That's funnier than the post itself.

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We all suffer from vitamin Love deficiency. Condition seems terminal. When i say i want a girlfriend, it means i need a painkillers. A girlfriend is a dream that maybe will happen, maybe not. But can we make it happen, should we try to force it? Is it no much nicer to receive than to take? This dream world is a gift, i shall not ask for more. 

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20 hours ago, Jowblob said:

I've been single all my life basically, realized there's no true love here. And human love is based on survival, if i was born in this world and have to survive and care about my resources and time, i rather stay single. That's why i'm retired at 31. There's no point wasting your life working till your 68 taking care of of others. The human love is based on survival. Ones you go more within, you realize everyone is you and get these energies automatically. This world is pointless and was probably made by god to forget itself in the working mode and survival. Also realized that you're "it" or you're "love" yourself and there's basically only being. Everyone is an actor in the survival game, chasing hopeless dreams and happiness in the eternal, you exist forever.

You also have to keep in mind that the more you get attached to things the more harder it is for your consciousness to develop or grow, you have to remember that eventually everyone has to let go of their loved ones to progress further, and the grief will be insane because you realize it was just a game and you didn't love your loved ones enough, they were just part of the enviroment/game.

 once you're fully mature, then what ?
 


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57 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

 once you're fully mature, then what ?
 

Then you make love with God.

The end.

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Not long ago, Leo said a woman has to be at least 25, preferably around 30. But in that screenshot, 22-year-olds are also considered fine?

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