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Guys, What Is Girlfriend Material And Where To Find Them?

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Title kind of explains the topic.

What are the most important factors for you guys?

I do of course have some of my own, but generally having them all is a bit unrealistic. To be completely honest I feel like I do not want 95% of all girls i meet, and usually i'll have to compromise with the remaining 5%.

I mean most of them are good looking(Swedish girls), so I could have sex with them, But that's not what i'm about. Maybe it's just Swedish girls and i'm unlucky, because i do like Ukrainians, Germans and Austrians better(the few i've meet).

Thanks in advance

 

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@Spiral The right girlfriend can only be present when you are at peace with yourself.  Until then, a significant other is the best teacher. 


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@Nahm Would you not call it selfish to get into a relationship, seeing no long term potential and only doing so for personal growth?

 

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You will probably never find that perfect girl who will just show up and everything will be exactly as you want it, understand that over time as you get to know each other she will learn to be the right girl for you. 


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I like a nice booty man. When she is wearing a dress and you see it moving underneath. That's what I like. 

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On 2017. 05. 23. at 6:13 PM, SFRL said:

I like a nice booty man. When she is wearing a dress and you see it moving underneath. That's what I like. 

Male instincts dude, male instincts... :D Leo also says in his "Masculinity vs Femininity" video that all that men want in women is just a nice face, body, booty and tits.


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3 minutes ago, Annetta said:

@egoeimai it is the truth 

Yeah and of course this is ego love not true love. True love is acceptance and deep deep understanding and it has quality. Whereas ego love is about conditions ....you have to have a nice ? or ? for me to "love" you. Anyways! Luckily this doesn't apply to all individuals ??

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@Spiral I'm just an insecure person don't mind me one bit carry on

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5 minutes ago, Annetta said:

@Spiral I'm just an insecure person don't mind me one bit carry on

I'm sorryO.o, I made this thread looking for character traits not physical things.

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Here is the girlfriend material.About 60% of their bodies are made of this

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7 hours ago, Jhonny said:

Here is the girlfriend material.About 60% of their bodies are made of this

water.jpg

Yo dude you just took it to another level. Lol

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Will this turn into a woman hating thread ? Just guessing. 

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I'm a 21 y/o male

girlfriend material for me is a woman who is:

humble

intelligent

openminded

honest

compssionate 

pasionate / creative n life 

takes care of herself- diet, exercise etc

physically- attractive at least ( most women are attractive if they take care of themselves , providing that you aren't warped by media and porn) 

 

 

 

 

In my experience , it's rare to find women of this caliber, but that's because. I haven't. Been searching

as a guy , you got to do the searching.

this, couples with the fact that. I've been entertaining mgtow philosophy and focusing on my goals and self is why im still single

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I don't know. Kinda weird to run around judging women if they are "girlfriend material" or not. Just the term sounds pretty degrading and arrogant to me.

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On 5/23/2017 at 10:10 AM, Spiral said:

Title kind of explains the topic.

What are the most important factors for you guys?

I do of course have some of my own, but generally having them all is a bit unrealistic. To be completely honest I feel like I do not want 95% of all girls i meet, and usually i'll have to compromise with the remaining 5%.

I mean most of them are good looking(Swedish girls), so I could have sex with them, But that's not what i'm about. Maybe it's just Swedish girls and i'm unlucky, because i do like Ukrainians, Germans and Austrians better(the few i've meet).

Thanks in advance

In order to be able to find a girl that you really connect with beyond the physical level, you have to cultivate a relationship with your own feminine side. The masculine side in all people can only see a woman (or man) as the sum of her (or his) parts. So, the only way that someone who operates solely under the aegis of the masculine side can be attracted to someone is in a physical way or by enumerating their accomplishments or strengths. But a man who has cultivated a relationship with his feminine side will have more emotional sensitivity and awareness which will give him the ability to read his intuition. Until you develop emotional sensitivity, you'll just be going around in your mind trying to make pieces fit intellectually. The intuition will tell you who you're really attracted to in a deep way. 

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