mr_engineer

'Approach thousands of women'

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The church of pick-up states 'If thou shalt approach thousands of women, thou shalt get laid'. 

Here's my question. 

Why thousands? Why not tens, or hundreds, or tens of thousands, or millions? Is there any reason to have this specific order of magnitude of the number of women you should approach? 

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You would in fact get laid after just 1. You would drop the soap in jail after being arrested for it.

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5 minutes ago, Raze said:

The last point in this article is 'you can become a dating-coach if you do this!' 

Is this what this is?! A pyramid-scheme?! 'Get good at approaching women, so that you can teach other guys to get good at approaching women!' 

Where does this all lead to? What is the point of doing it? And, why thousands?! 

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If there is no answer to the 'why', this tells me that it's a dogma. Like a church. 'Thou shalt approach thousands of women'. 

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You approach as many as you wish, game is not approaching women and that's where growth is,dates etc. is just refining your expression...


Who teaches us whats real and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend?Who chain us? And who holds the Key that can set us free? 

It's you.

You have all the weapons you need 

Now fight.

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Approaching thousands of women can lead to disassociation and desensitization in the dating world. It's no different than what can happen with hookers and porn stars. It becomes obvious with some men that approach me that they do this with lots of women and couldn't care less if I respond or not. It becomes obvious it's a numbers game and because women are graduates and have masters degrees in feelings and have a certain sense about certain things in this department, it can have a negative impact on the men who approach in the thousands and will only attract the same type of woman, the one who is also detached from her feelings and couldn't care less about who you are as a person.

 


Thought = Time. Without thought there's no time. Death is the end of the illusion.

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3 hours ago, mr_engineer said:

The church of pick-up states 'If thou shalt approach thousands of women, thou shalt get laid'. 

Here's my question. 

Why thousands? Why not tens, or hundreds, or tens of thousands, or millions? Is there any reason to have this specific order of magnitude of the number of women you should approach? 

The more you approach the better you'll be at the game. There is no dogma. 

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2 hours ago, mr_engineer said:

If there is no answer to the 'why', this tells me that it's a dogma. Like a church. 'Thou shalt approach thousands of women'. 

It's a numbers game. No quality women will respond to a numbers game and even if she does, she'll quickly sense that she was just a dice that was thrown and her number got picked.


Thought = Time. Without thought there's no time. Death is the end of the illusion.

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2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Approaching thousands of women can lead to disassociation and desensitization in the dating world. It's no different than what can happen with hookers and porn stars. It becomes obvious with some men that approach me that they do this with lots of women and couldn't care less if I respond or not. It becomes obvious it's a numbers game and because women are graduates and have masters degrees in feelings and have a certain sense about certain things in this department, it can have a negative impact on the men who approach in the thousands and will only attract the same type of woman, the one who is also detached from her feelings and couldn't care less about who you are as a person.

 

Approaching women doesn't mean fucking them. What dissociation and desensitization you are talking about? 

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2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's a numbers game. No quality women will respond to a numbers game and even if she does, she'll quickly sense that she was just a dice that was thrown and her number got picked.

of course because a women wants to feel special :D

It's actually a good strategy. I have a friend of mine who has never had problems with women. You know how? well, he is a master at manipulating them. At first he makes them feel special and they think that he falls in love with them. But in reality he fucks like 2-3 girls meanwhile and none of them are aware of each other and all of them feel special :D

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Just now, TheGod said:

The more you approach the better you'll be at the game. There is no dogma. 

Yea, the game of approaching. Which can lead or don't lead to anywhere. Approaching doesn't require much skill. The reason for the approach is where the true success lies if you succeed at that. You will say the more you approach the better your success, but the more you approach the quicker the burn out and the less quality of a conversation you'll have and your game will seem robotic.


Thought = Time. Without thought there's no time. Death is the end of the illusion.

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Love when you guys throw word game and not know what it is 😅


Who teaches us whats real and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend?Who chain us? And who holds the Key that can set us free? 

It's you.

You have all the weapons you need 

Now fight.

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1 minute ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Love when you guys throw word game and not know what it is 😅

Yeah all of us playing this game here 

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Just now, TheGod said:

of course because a women wants to feel special :D

It's actually a good strategy. I have a friend of mine who has never had problems with women. You know how? well, he is a master at manipulating them. At first he makes them feel special and they think that he falls in love with them. But in reality he fucks like 2-3 girls meanwhile and none of them are aware of each other and all of them feel special :D

You have said nothing ambiguous here. You said the women wanted to feel special and they succeeded. You're assuming these women wanted love and a husband and kids and a fantasy life. You said they wanted to feel special and your so-called player friend did that. You don't know if these women were also screwing 10 different men the same day. Thats not manipulation that's low self-esteem and low-confidence when he has to manipulate his way into having sex while the women are still walking around feeling special and didn't have to manipulate their way into getting laid.


Thought = Time. Without thought there's no time. Death is the end of the illusion.

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3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Which can lead or don't lead to anywhere.

What do you mean? 

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Approaching doesn't require much skill.

This is false. You have no idea how difficult approaching is for shy and not confident men. 

 

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You will say the more you approach the better your success, but the more you approach the quicker the burn out

Where did you get this idea? What burn out are you talking about? I

5 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

the less quality of a conversation you'll have and your game will seem robotic.

How can you possible come up with this assumption? I'm just so puzzled right now. If you throw a guy who has never approached women to have a conversation do you think he'll have a wonderful experience? 

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10 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Approaching women doesn't mean fucking them. What dissociation and desensitization you are talking about? 

The more you approach, the more "rejection" is imminent. The more rejected one feels, the more dissatisfied with their approach. The more dissatisfaction, the more disassociation, the more disassociation, the more desensitized. 


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1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

You're assuming these women wanted love and a husband and kids and a fantasy life.

I have never said that. You're making things up my friend. 

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You don't know if these women were also screwing 10 different men the same day

For sure some of there do!

3 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

around feeling special and didn't have to manipulate their way into getting laid.

women have different agenda. For them getting laid is not as important as for guys (mostly). 

 

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Posted (edited)

@TheGod

 this is game if you had it you would know what it means.

Edited by NoSelfSelf

Who teaches us whats real and how to laugh at lies? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend?Who chain us? And who holds the Key that can set us free? 

It's you.

You have all the weapons you need 

Now fight.

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Just now, Princess Arabia said:

The more you approach, the more "rejection" is imminent. The more rejected one feels, the more dissatisfied with their approach. The more dissatisfaction, the more disassociation, the more disassociation, the more desensitized. 

Sorry but for me it seems like you are from a different planet. The more rejections you get the easier it gets. 

Dissatisfaction, disassociation, desensitization  are very fancy words. I would also add delirium to explain how you connect all of them in one sentence. 

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