Javfly33

Some people obsession with quitting porn

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10 minutes ago, TheGod said:

After watching porn I feel very lonely and even depressed. I don't think our minds were developed for porn. It is artificial. You watch some guy fucking a girl you wish you could fuck but you can't. How do you think it effects you psyche or self-esteem? 

 

that´s a good point.

And let´s not even talk if you fantasise about being the girl. 

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But again, I'm just sharing my experience with porn. I'm not here to argue with people on this topic.  

Don´t worry, jokes aside I value your insight into the topic. I agree with most of it. 

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22 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

And let´s not even talk if you fantasise about being the girl. 

You know I'm only doing it on 5MeO hahhah

 

22 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

Don´t worry, jokes aside I value your insight into the topic. I agree with most of it. 

I'm sending you lots of hugs and love !

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On 16/04/2024 at 2:25 PM, Javfly33 said:

There is a lot going on against pornography lately.

Now, I´m not saying is healthy to waste your time and energies watching sexual content on a regular basis, is clear some people are using (abusing it) and is becoming an habit on its own where to waste time and manage anxiety.

But is not addiction, is just that you are using that to avoiding face boringness, anxiety, etc. Is not like pornography has physical dependence as drugs.

BUT ANYWAYS, im not even taking about that. I´m talking about that some want to quit porn because of psychological reasons.

This psychological reasons are that for this people porn or fantasies are producing a certain karmic tension for them. Because their ego has certain repressed tendencies and shadows, and sex is that place where those tendencies and repressed shadows are felt, and arise without barriers.

This is scary for the mind and it sees as 'bad'. Because they think this tension is something bad. No, is that you are getting close to the nucleus of karmic content of your ego. The more you feel against a certain porn taste or fetish, the more your ego doesn't want to observe something. 

The moment you won´t repress the karmic content that being revealed to the surface, then you will see porn is not bad, is actually a mirror that is reflecting information about your system, something very deep.

You don´t have to be against it or raise it to the heavens, you just have to be completely neutral and watch what is being revealed. 

In other words: just completely let go. Doesn´t matter how daunting it is for your mind to let go, do it. 

So basically in summary, if you want to quit porn because it 'promotes' certain porn taste or fetishes and you feel this things are 'bad', you actually got it backwards. 

 

Porn can be an addiction. 
Addiction happen via alleviation of boredom. 

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P®n had ruined my libido, motivation and had given me severe ED at 26 years old

Everyone is different . Look what works or doesn't work for yourself . Only you can be honest with yourself and know if you have s problem and if it robs you of your life's zest to live  more fully 

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makes no sense imho to mock or deride any desire to lessen porn watching. that shows dedication and self-love. porn is fine when used moderately, but obviously bad in excess. 

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