daniel695

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  1. 7 hours ago, Matt8800 said:

    Life is not kind to repulsive people.

    @Matt8800 what do you mean by that?

    7 hours ago, Matt8800 said:

    Children that socialize in ways that cause them to become repulsive to others tend to grow up to be adults that socialize with others in ways that repulse others.

    if you find someone repulsive its most likely got to do something with you rather then the person you find repulsive.


  2. so i've been thinking about suicide lately for the past couple of days and i believe on of the reasons is that i have the belief "i believe i will be happy when i die" so i did some work by byron katie and changed it to "i wont be happy when i die" now idk if its the belief its self but i got this feeling on my chest and its a weird sensation like a worry tightening sensation. not sure if its because its a change of believe that caused it. to change a belief you also need to change the emotion you attach it to. my question is it okay to have the belief "i wont be happy when i die" if it means you wont commit suicide or get a more neutral belief.   

    also what happens when you change a belief? like do you get a sensation in the body or anything like that?


  3. hi guys,

    my name is Daniel and i tend to just believe my mind with what ever it tells me. this then creates an emotional reaction. they tend to be fearful thoughts or create fearful emotions.the thoughts imply....if i don't do this then something bad will happen to me. an example would be lets say i'm at mcdonalds and i just finished my order and the lady gives my change back. now that i have the change a thought might pop up if you don't donate then you will go broke....and i automatically believe it and just assume its true and it creates emotional reaction out of me. this can happen multiple times a couple minutes.

     

    so how do i stop believing my mind and become a skeptic until its automatic i question things my mind tells me.


  4. growing up i always wanted a girlfriend and its something that brought me lots of anxiety and fear because even when i was young i thought i should of had a girlfriend by then. so the older i got the more anxious i was and was afraid of talking to people about it or even mentioning the fact that i don't have a girlfriend. so like when i was 10 i put lots of pressure that i should of had a girlfriend by then which made me feel inadequate. i have gotten over it now and feel less inclined to get a girlfriend. growing up and realizing its not something you must have. i have been part of the pick up community for about 2 years and i have gotten results like dates and numbers and lots of flakes lol, but still no girlfriend.

    i want to stop chasing and stop being afraid if i end up growing old alone and the fear of judgments of not ever having a girlfriend.

    so the reason i want a girlfriend is to just get it and over and done with so i dont have to think about it again and to just say ive had a girlfriend.

    i used to worry about not having kissed a girl and when i finally kissed a girl i never thought about it again and getting a blow job the same day i kissed a girl lol.

    my question is it normal to never have a girlfriend and to never have sex and grow old?

    i personally think its normal so idk why im asking you guys but i want the opinions of my fellow actualizes

    is it also ok to just stop chasing and move on to other things after doing pick up for 2 years?

    i also trust in the universe that if its meant to be i will get a girlfriend without me chasing

    thanks for taking the time to read this!   


  5. is it not true that the depth of enlightenment that someone can have is infinite. it would make sense for it to be infinite since everything is infinite. i was recently watching leos new video and it got me thinking that its infinite depth of enlightenment. so it means he can have even dipper experience of enlightenment.