daniel695

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  1. start contemplating and get your mindset right.

    its your belief and how you see things that holding you back

    ask yourself questions like....

    what is love

    my definition of love is.....

    i will receive love...... 

    i will be rejected if......

    i will accepted when....

    my experience have told me love is....

    my experience have told me i receive love when?

    i want people to like because? 

    i'm insecure because....

     

    so ask yourself various questions and you will be surprised at your beliefs and how you really see the world. 


  2. this is personalized question and you should contemplate it yourself...im in the same boat never had a girlfriend and im frustrated sometimes and if it makes me unhappy its because im in agreement with myself that i wont be happy unless i get a girlfriend. i can also have an agreement that says i can be happy without a girlfriend

    check this out to find out more:what are agreements? and how they take away our power

    its by gary warmerdam 


  3. @youngshinzen its like my ego is dying and struggling because im taking to the medication. im practicing just letting this be but its tough man. and i feel like theirs no support if i decide to get off my medication but that might be a limiting belief. i cant even cry because its suppressing my emotions and i want to be able to cry lol.

     

    what caused your psychosis? i believe my one was weed and childhood trauma also bullying 


  4. i heard mooji say suffering is an attitude. meaning you can be in great pain but not necessarily suffer. i have chronic headache and brain which which means i'm in pain but doesn't necessarily mean i'm suffering unless my attitude or perception of the pain is misinterpreted. as leo said you can escape suffering or never even suffer in the first place but i don't know you can escape pain.  


  5. hi guys. it just hit me that i attach myself to the good and avoid the bad and that my mind also works in duality. i realized when i think of something good i like use energy or a force to try to attach myself to it. before i thought it was mini panic attack but now i realized its my attachment to the good and avoidance of the bad.

    have any of you realized how you attach yourself to your thoughts?

    or how your mind works in duality?


  6.  

    On 12/2/2018 at 11:59 AM, Serotoninluv said:
      On 12/2/2018 at 11:55 AM, Roman Edouard said:

    Thanks man, and this is off topic but there is a cycle that a lot of people don't know. I call it the "negative energy" cycle.

    For example: Bob had a bad day today. Rather than blowing off steam with relaxation or pushing a punching bag, Bob sends an angry text to his friend Bill (I know I'm not using the most creative names.) Bill is now in a bad mood and he makes others in a bad mood as well from not blowing off steam. Those people who are now in a bad mood cause others to be in a bad mood as well.

    by being aware of this cycle you can be the one to stop it and create new energy and pass it on


  7. @Joseph Maynor yeah that’s one reason I want to pursue enlightenment to be more accepting of my suffering and to see it for what it is. Yesterday I started saying everything that arises within my mind...”I am that” because I noticed yesterday that my mind works in duality and it accepts the good but rejects the bad. So I’m practicing more acceptance of everything around me.

     

    @Hellspeed what do you want me to drop? My desire for enlightenment?. I heard Leo said the last thing to drop is your desire for enlightenment.while  Pursuing enlightenmen you also pursue the heart because you will need to be intouch with your heart as you self inquiry.


  8. so my desire for enlightenment is growing and i'm seriously considering pursuing enlightenment. the reason my desire is growing is because im suffering and the more i question it and look at it i'm looking towards enlightenment as a way out. i'm going to keep exploring the theme around enlightenment and continue to develop me desire for enlightenment.

    who else here i has a desire for enlightenment or already has a deep strong burning desire for enlightenment?

    how strong is your desire for enlightenment Leo?