actualizing25

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  1. So I want to improve my dating skills and want to pursue enlightenment at the same time. I dont want to do both at the same time. I want to pursue just one of them first and then the other. What order would be better ?I think that I would pursue enlightenment first and then after that dating. But maybe I might be too old by then to start improving my dating skills. Im currently 25 and I think the spiritual journey will take at leat 10 years.

     

    Thanks for your reply, appreciate it :)


  2. @Leo Gura Thanks for the help, Leo. May I ask you two last questions? Sorry for asking. I really dont want to bother you, but I think that your answers might help many other people, who have the same questions like me. 

    1. So do I need to take ALA if I do the post Urine test chelation (just one round)? and 

    2. Can I use DMSA for the Urine test and then DMPS for the post Urine test chelation round?

    Thanks a lot, Leo, appreciate your help.


  3. Before I start chelation I first want to do a provoked urine test to see, whether chelation is necessary and how toxic I am.

     

    1. Is it safe, if I use DMSA just one time for the provoked urine test or does it redistribute the heavy metals in the body and creates more harm than good?

     

    2. What type of water should I drink, when I do the provoked urine test? Does it even matter, what type of water I am drinking?

     

    Thanks a lot :)


  4. So as far as I have understood hell refers to the ego-life and heaven would be the state of No-Self or God-Realization. But most people just dont seem to be that unhappy that they would say that their life is hell-like. Most people seem quite satisfied with life. So why is it then that the ego-state is referred to as hell in all the traditions?

     

    Thanks for alle the answers, Appreciate them. Peace.


  5. So Im making a list of my biases and Im trying to find out which ones are the most important to let go of. There are biases which are easy for me to let go of and then there are biases which are quite difficult to let go of. An easy bias to let go of would be the bias for specific type of music. I can listen to all kinds of music without attaching myself to one genre. Another bias that I try to let go of is the  bias for my family and my friends. So next year Im moving out and with that I will be able to let go of that bias. I will also meet new people then, so my bias for my current friends will also be let go of. Of course I will still see my family and the friends I have here, but I have to learn to let them go and not attach myself so much to them. A bias that is difficult for me to let go of, would be my bias for enlightenment. That will be quite difficult. My bias towards women (as a heterosexual man) is another bias that will be difficult to let go of, but with practice I can open myself more and more to the other sex. Other biases of mine are: bias for health, bias for comfort, bias for the status quo and bias for entertainment (entertaining myself with YouTube-videos for example).

     

    What do you guys think, are the most important biases that someone can let go of that will bring them closer to god/absolute reality?

     

    thanks, appreciate your answers :D


  6. Hello :)

    An egoic desire is for example wanting to live unconditionally happy, wanting to experience real peace, wanting to escape suffering, wanting to experience the highest joy etc.  I know, that in the end you have to drop all these things because you will realize that the ego is an illusion and likewise all these egoic desires. But these desires can give someone the motivation to meditate hardcore, to work with psychedelics, to do hardcore retreats etc. Because without hardcore practice you wont ever awaken. And in my opinion, if these desires can bring someone to meditate hardcore, then they can be valid motivations towards awakening. What do you think? I think it is valid to trick the ego with these desire to do the spiritual practices and before the ego actually realizes that it is going to die, it will be to late to go back because awakening will destroy it.