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  1. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @DefinitelyNotARobot To give middle finger to the world,other people opinions,outside influencers,teachers and have trust in yourself to do it without letting mind stops you.

    Its all about seeing that mind is telling you lies and you have to take charge, because if you dont take charge of yourself you will always be in same place with trivial changes.

    You are programmed to seek answers and teachers outside yourself thats why you lose.

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    You answer the queastions

    1.Whats my sexual style?

    2.Whats my relationship with sex?

    3.Am i choosing to watch porn instead of going out?

    4.How am i going to express my sexuality am i more romantic or kinky or mix of both?

    You must answer the queastions,create the solution but if you dont have game its all fruitless, woman will call the shots and porn...

    Porn is not harmful your mind is.

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    @woohoo123 We are speaking about you here.You have to be active all your life and certently you can be active as 90 year old.My grandma had 90 years she was walking 3 floors upstairs with bunch of clothes ready to dry them.She was phisicaly really capable.

    Ofcourse its genetic thing, but she was active like that and if you never been active just picking yourself off the floor position is a workout itself ...

     

  7. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    I dont know how mix of ocd and adhd works,but my adhd lessened alot with conciousness work, but i went through alot of emotional purging that can suck real bad,you dont know when its going to stop 😅...

    If you have survival needs a problem then its better to watch practical stuff first this is cliche advice but oh well.

    Also ill move this to mental health section.

  10. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @Amit You have to understand yourself on deeper level beyond your parents,culture,past experience because that's where the sucess and quality of relationship is,it will always be more about you than the other person.

    When other person notices you dont know yourself,you dont have internal value of who you are to yourself, then they will take the lead and be in power position naturally.

    There will always be conditiones, relationship is not based on emotions first.But you dont have your own conditions for her to meet that's the problem...

  15. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @Applegarden8 Its about when you are not a man you are listening to youtube figures like Andrew tate and you confirming what they are saying based on women and money they have ,instead of the message they are saying.So in that state you dont have mind of your own, when you dont then what happens to other people you believe it will automatically  happen to you and it will actually happen because you are not turning to yourself for an answers(programmed to look for someone else to fix your life) but to youtube figures, because there is no trust in self ,so when i come here with alternative its misunderstood because trust in self is needed,its bassicaly fruitless because i hit part where you not believing in yourself.

    To tie this down to the offering thing to a woman, when you dont have your own original thinking you basically are forced to offer only what you heared from youtube and your poor perception of reality.You are not creating anything of original value there is nothing different about you,i can ask you what did you create original this week in context of women it will probably be 0.

    Its on both ends meaning that males cant offer and women cant offer what males need.

    No im not saying man has to offer more he offers based on his standard, but males dont have standard they will try to offer more based on beauty and wont offer the same from beggining when they get sex.

    Woman has to prove herself to you and offer when they see you are something different, but when you follow Andrew Tate you cant do that.(make her(i wrote wrong you are not making her she chooses based on who you are) want to offer because women are recievers)

    My replys are always in depth but sometimes depth is not needed.

  16. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    Everything she says is right but she wouldnt buy into second persona if she wasnt interested in first place, basically him changing his approach stayed true to his manipulative nature, thats why game is staying true to yourself ,not changing because of women not liking your approach,or telling you how to be.

    She can see through your bs and you faking it by asking boring queastions for example.

    If you busy getting a woman and getting laid then you are slave to the resault and you give her all the power.Everything should come from who you are, not what woman or situation wants you to be.

    Moment you act like first persona or second you are actually showing you dont value yourself.

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    @StarStruck Okay let me simplify, If somebody else had bad experience with women and they got divorced and they fall into statistic of 50% of people who got divorced,so based on that person that now talks how women are bad ,you going to say marriege is not for me.So instead of carving your own path to be in 50% of sucess you will let someone else influence part of your mind who loves negativity because negativity keeps you in comfort zone so mind did its job.Its about not having your own mind and you working hard on yourself but instead taking path that appeals to the negative side of the mind.

    If you want marriage fine, if not fine but if internet is influencing by statistics on how you gonna live your life then thats when i see that you have no mind of your own and you cant offer nothing to a woman, because no woman will want to be with someone that other people and world is telling you how to be,what to do and make you doubt yourself,just because they cant do it(and you can) man says fuck it im proving this statistic bs wrong they are no telling me who the fuck i am...

     

  19. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    5 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

    Now, they’re pushing for being able to divorce rape you while you’re not even living together, just in a relationship.

     

    This is like me breaking an ankle walking down the street and now i make a youtube video on how walking down the streets is so dangerous and nobody should walk on it, because there is a strong chance that you could break an ankle and worse getting hit by a car ,then i open up the statistic on how many people died walking down the street and its a genocide out there,now im going to tell you how bad it is to even walk #walkingkillsyou 

    Meanwhile im walking down on a street with holes talking on a phone.

    You talking about periods and then kissing a girl without any connection to you,then she calls security on you makes everything belivable then.

    Guy on interner has zero game, he attracted a woman with money and how fake great guy he is , got divorced and his money taken now everyone should be afraid of woman because she will take all your money 😂

    Im not saying there are not some women who would do bad things, but you should know her beyond her looks to see shes just there to use you but ofcourse #womenaredangerous

    Money clothes and status attracts women there you have it.(sarcasam)

  21. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @Past-Philosopher-562 Your last sentence for example is part of this being too emotional,caring too much.You caring about another guy for example makes you weak.

    There is a million things i already told you not being 1.not being authentic-being more than he is 2.Approval seeking -wanting her to like him..3.way he talks like saying you so beautiful 4.dont have boundaries because i would walk away there 5.no self esteem so he is taking her to a game that could cost alot to impress her but he doesnt know her i can go to a 1000...

    What physique you talking about?

  22. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    I mean she sees him as a loser,a friend by the way he talks/behaves, look the statements average male says then put it in the context,since he doesnt believe in himself he behaves in a way that he wants to appear as confident and guy with game(putting on a fasade, but he comes off weird/cringe because he is needy to get her to like him,so that makes her go towards a guy that is not doing those things, to disrespect him further because she knows he is a loser that will put up with that,you basically teach women how to treat you all the time...

    Im not saying its okay what she did,but its necessary for him to become a man,to wake up most of them dont...he probably wanted to prove himself to her after this instead of walking away..

  25. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    @Applegarden8 that's not the point of the thread,point is if you for example have dark humor and it rubs people the wrong way, change in this case is to stop having dark humor which compromises your growth in that style of humor and not being 100% authentic, for the sake of fitting in that particular group or persons ways..which digress your growth because in my case growth would be to stop looking for approval and fitting in ,but to grow in who you are as a person 100%, which peer pressure and social conditioning not allowing, but ironicaly would make you most charismatic...

    But topic starter thinks you should change for others so you grow(if i got it right)but its good topic not easy to discuss because it has alot of nuances...