NoSelfSelf

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  1. @Rishabh R No because you want me to tell you everything is going to be alright,well it wont you failed the test you care more about how i make you feel than what message im telling you beneath that.Why you think it will be okay? You can accept being what you are. Not everyone is going to make it but it could be you if you stop pity yourself and seek some serious help aka investment of money,sweat,pain...otherwise im lying to you like all the fake feel good type of self help advice. Poor me i cant get a girlfriend nobody cares you either go become a man or stay who you are not this ohh ill take a moment to understand you make you feel better does nothing time passes and you end up just in same place as you were.
  2. @Rishabh R You are hoping and pitying yourself+ cant listen to the words someone tell you that its necessary so you stop giving a f.So answer is no if you stay like this.
  3. @Thought Art I told you not to reply to me i dont have time for surface level thinkers...
  4. @bebotalk giving you warning points every time you attack woman on here only if they started first.To surface level thinkers im not for women or againts im looking things very nuanced with little self bias.
  5. @Ishanga That's how i see it they look to be spiritual,wise etc. But they are dominated by the hard discipline of their culture,see how they treat the english guy,how they dont accept nothing outside their bubble its all red-blue they gonna kill or kill themselves if you touch their ways. I admire the code they worship but it would be more advanced if they all have their own code on top of some general code accepting of different ways then they would probably went to orange but im speculating here... Only 10 episodes sucks tho...
  6. @Schizophonia If he keeps it up with my pleasure @Thought Art I dont know how to express things to naive boy like you so i dont hurt your feelings, only nonsense is me keep talking to you for this long,this i can admit i silly as f...dont talk to me again ill feel dirty to need to reply to you.
  7. @Razard86 Now i clearly dont understand people why tf does it matter if they were girls or boys fucked up individual is fucked up individual.I got gums put in my hair by girls why does it matter if its a girl,so if a black person does something bad now all blacks are bad what a bs ,humans are next level.
  8. @Thought Art I knew it you symphatize with him because deep down you feel the same,she can post if this guy can hate its not your forum fare is fare. @Schizophonia I didnt get anything you are saying 😅
  9. Love that show waiting for each episode to come.They are stage blue mostly,stage red.But beside stages i got some nice wisdom regarding game which is my main focus. Love the quote(paraphrasing) "The more you climb the more the one experience his own loneliness" Game translation:the more you know yourself the more you become your own centar and source of evrything,your source of wisdom your source of power.
  10. @Princess Arabia I thought you learned that i seperate a male and a man,so there are ways males behave and ways men behave. Also you dont tell a man what to do only if you see me as male 😆
  11. @Princess Arabia What you are not seeing is that all of them are getting warning points, many of them are on the edge of getting banned .I wouldnt turn this into a gender wars its certen individuals lost ,if you ask me i would ban him because he is not here to learn but then if im doing that ill become the problem because its not my forum to put such high standards. Times i verbaly tell someone to stop is because thread has potential,but there are few things that need to stop otherwise i have to lock it.If having problem always contact someone males will be males.
  12. @Princess Arabia Everything you wrote is precisely the reason why i hid this thread before anyone even seen it,now this mod opened it with short sighted seeing looking to enforce his "love" narrative lets love one person and hate billions of others wtf.
  13. @Thought Art You are such a good willed man im melting in your masculine presence,ill prepare some hot chocolate,tissues,shape my attitude that is full of unconditional love and undenying understanding,dont you worry bob we gonna save you,dont shout at women in meantime everything gonna be okay you are loved and protected.❤
  14. @Thought Art As a dinosaur i fail to see where did he asked for help,he is just looking to justify actions he knows are off. This type of guys create bitter women that you then complain on the forum, because you are sensitive just like him. Again i fail to see how will love help here, like we suppose to substitue love of a mom and dad thats our job now? Last time i checked the mirror i didnt see myself as Jesus. Feminine guys cant help him, become a man, if he was a man ,he wouldnt give a fuck if women is hot,but since he wants to fuck them so bad and life is not porn he attacks them because its easier than becoming a man.
  15. Experience and tips regarding what?
  16. @meta_male when i was really fucked i spent like 8 hours in bed just observing the present moment and figuring out from where watcher watches, that was my style of meditation, it worked well for me since like you said normal meditation is ruined because of too much distraction from all the turmoil,its like little knifes of anxiety constantly in your stomach from every thought present,mybe you can relate...
  17. Its crucial in the game to fall down come back and not being defined by reactions of others and endresaults of situations.
  18. It all boils down to caring about the woman and making it all about the woman,at that point man becomes a woman and she doesnt want to date a woman.Then that care becomes biterness because you want her more than yourself so all hell break loose when it doesnt happen the way you want it by fitting into what you think she wants and when it doesnt work,one thinks: so how could she do that when i care for her so much,lets talk bad about her now on the internet(feminine behaviour of red pill ideology)
  19. Ive been there paralyzed, panick attacks for years just stuck it seems like at the mercy of your psyche not being able to do anything but wait, it gets better ofcourse, with work, the strongest ones have -1000 steps to get to the 0 step to go up! nobody will understand this because they dont know how brutal psyche can get.Then you just climb. Hesitant to post this because its brutal(dont watch if sensitive) but it really describes what you saying . Lyrics they take good care of not take care of you im unexplainable one! If you want to talk im always free i swam that current maybe i know something to help..
  20. I know how this because i went through it its like living hell basically,no matter how good you become you always think, okay but there is another level,i still suck so there is always inner conflict when you dont accept yourself.Expecially through sports tilting and seeing how bad i am comparing to someone great. Root cause: it all comes from you defining yourself through the level of success that its placed upon you,definig yourself with your salary,with anything outside of you that is placed by society instead you placing your owb standard(which im sure you havent placed its placed for you so if there is a standard that is way up there for you and for someone else is easy you will hate yourself).That creates that boogyman belief im not good enough. Only if you are some type of genius you wont "fail"ever,so self assesment is crucial here to see hey im not on a level that i think i am,mind loves to think of itself that is way higher than it is,so there is also comparing yourself now with ideal self whit that expectation to be ideal self comes self hate and self definition. Thats why there is huge fear of rejection because being rejected by a woman is defining me as being less of a man.(what a bs,nobody holds this power but me) There is so much layers to this cant just write it all here, there is also your mind afterwards pointing out the things you did. For example today i fumbled with one social interaction immidietly mind gets into attack but since im not defining myself by the standards of how i should be im good ill do it next time,i am where i am right now. Thats like you right now cant lift 200kg instead of seeing where you are and where you need to go without like saying im pathetic i can only lift 50kg. Be grateful for 50kg and where you are right now and watch for definitions you giving yourself. This is tough to get out of because you think like you serving yourself by hitting yourself in the head but no you just unnecesary give extra stress. No matter how much you hate yourself or whatever you are still you and you move accordignly.Or fall into victim mindset that just creates hell and self pity instead of seeing yourself as great the way you are because you know no outside definition is making me better(only if validation definse you because again you dont define yourself with self assesment,being grateful,seeing you are already great by itself) its just me adding to my greatness...
  21. I have a clarification that game is not about making someone stay. Its about you displaying her who you are with yourself,so they can choose if they want to stay or not.Nobody with game thinks what should i do to make him/her stay thats exatly a mindset that will make them go away...
  22. @Princess Arabia True but there are many factors where it can be louder but 9/10 its just silent happening @Sugarcoat I cant speak for a woman but its more mental than physical with a woman, so you imagining things is creating more pleasure,you being more comfortable,more open,more mentaly stimulated, so if you nervous,worried,cant let go, then it wont be intense as it should be, again its job of a man to make you feel comfortable mentally..
  23. @Sugarcoat i can speak personally here orgasam is not that much pleasure, if its not like a long build up, its more the moment before where most pleasure happens , if its not stretched its really short. My bad if its too explicit since you a lady
  24. @Optimized Life She has more game than any guy on here, so i would listen but you need to learn to listen the right things 🧠
  25. @Princess Arabia Yes if she showed me she has something more than just looks then its earned.Its worse for the individual who thinks its just a given if you are not worthy of the d then you wont have it,im not chasing.Im not here to follow whats natural of how it should be im here to unlock my whole beauty of me which is blocked by following the crowd,looking to fit in,being liked which is natural way of being.Like i said its better for me.