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  1. Posted

    4 hours ago, Keyblade Viking said:

    Those people are so frustrating, most people are completely hollow, worthless, judgmental, mechanical and a simply a waste of space not trying to rise up from their dull lives or even recognize that there's a problem.

    Nice "holier than you" attitude, bro ;) Not judgemental at all.

    @bazera Be careful. By judging other people you are feeding your ego and thats bad, mmkay? Not everyone should be smartass, all people has the same value, as you.

  3. Posted

    1 hour ago, Endew said:

    @electroBeam @joegarland

    I found the simple way to meet women

    First Be yourself
    Second Be confident

    Most people that want to take these pick up artist courses fall into that category. Don't fall for that trick. Go build confidence the right way.

    1) You don't know who you are to begin with, how you supposed to be something you don't know?

    2) You can't just be confident, it's deep inner transformation, how exactly to do that?

    It's common shallow advice "naturals" are giving, and it's more irritating than helpful. "Oh, you're suicidal? - Just don't be suicidal". Yeah, right.

  6. Posted

    I feel you, was in your shoes couple years ago. 

    1 hour ago, JevinR said:

    Another thought surrounding the idea of having to lose my virginity ASAP and having sex with 100 woman ASAP or else I will be a pussy/not a man my entire life

    Nothing external will bring you peace. You will lose your virginity (notice, how much value you are giving to this silly thing), and next day you will wake up with the same hell in your head. You can be the manliest man without fucking anybody, Leo mentioned it because in the process of doing so you will aquire emotional intelligence and character strength, necessary for being "masculine".

    Your mind is completely neurotic. Check Leo's video about this topic 

     

    You should eliminate all "shoulds" (Lol:P), "must" etc. You have inner conflict between real you and image in your head. And image is just a thought! 

    Find the core of your negative beliefs.  It might be low self-esteem and you're trying fill the gap with unneccesary shit, but it's like feeding the abyss. The key here is complete self-acceptance and self-love. You don't have to be anything- life is pointless and we all die.

    Be mindful of negative thought patterns and let them go. The purpose of meditation is to raise awareness and see thoughts as they are - just sensory phenomena without indulging in their content. 

    Have you read power of now? Absolute must have.

    When you eliminate all neurosis and accept yourself and reality as they are, you will be so much happy and at peace with yourself. Those external achievements won't even bother you, you will aquire them just for fun, life is a giant sandbox. And from this healthy place you can do whatever you want, without neediness and resistance.

    P.S. When you become authentic and at ease with yourself, you will become sexy motherfucker without need to overcompensate your lack of masculinity. 

  9. Posted · Edited by kalter000
    Unintentional diminishing sexual minorities.

    You've made 4 caricature characters, why did you become friends with salespeople in the first place!? =)

    Replies in the story were weak and why did you allow them to give you patronising back slaps?

    I can't connect it with ego, it's more like main character was pussy to convey his true values.

    And I see more ego in your comments, demonising characters you made up yourself and proving your righteousness over them. ;)

    @DanoDMano

  10. Posted

    @Zephyr Are you sure you didn't confuse feminine woman with just beautiful one? :) 

    In order to be truly feminine you have to get in touch with your authentic self and be confident.  Drama queens usually seek attention for themselves as a ego gratification, therefore we can't say they have healthy self-esteem and high consciousness.

    I knew one girl, she wasn't particularly pretty in classical sense, but how she was handling herself...  You could literally see feminine energy glowing from her, carefree attitude and emotional intelligence was seen through her eyes, she was giggly and  naughty when needed as well as understanding and compassionate in other situations.  She didn't have to prove anything to anybody and enjoyed her own presence.

    Sure girls are more emotional, but it doesn't mean they are hurricanes of insanity.(although sometimes they are)

  13. Posted

    @Phrae What do you mean? Of course he is sharing his perspective, based on his knowledge and observation, but I've found most of his stuff to be true personally. If you are afraid, that he forces you to be some way or another then don't worry- he goes pretty meta.

    If you can survive his dramatic over the top poetic style, then you'll find good piece of knowledge.

  15. Posted

    @Andess I believe girl on girl action is intended by mother nature- something so beautiful can't be a coincidence... =)

    Jokes aside I also think you've already liked women, you was just unconscious about it. And it's not bad, but perhaps I'm brainwashed by porn too.

    Porn is the effect, not the cause of being child molester, rapist etc. It's just giving fuel to already existing deviations in my perspective.

  18. Posted

    33 minutes ago, Avi said:

    Girl: You know... I think you are totally cute and fun. I would love to give you a blowjob in my apartment if you are up for it? No pun intended of course. 

    Pause. 

    Guy: You know I love getting head and I think you are really cute as well. May I ask you, besides me being cute and all, why you want to give me head? 

    Girl: Well to be completely open and honest, I've been extremely depressed the past few months and I've been having a lot of family trouble, my sister just committed suicide and my dad past away last year and it's just been to much. I want to use your cock to get over it. 

    Still better plot, than 50 shades of gray.

  22. Posted

    12 hours ago, Lemon said:

    I considered him my best friend

    12 hours ago, Lemon said:

    Our relationship wasn't based around sex

    Case closed, we can go home now :P

     

    For a mutual friendship you seem too clingy. Doesn't seem like love, more like neurotic attachment. Looks like he wasn't getting something from your relationship and he  realised that. Have you talked to him about that? 

    12 hours ago, Lemon said:

    I feel like shouting at him saying what about your passion in life? Why don't you put your energy toward that?  Dreams don't have to be futile don't just settle for an easy route!

    Who are you to decide what's best for him? What's the easy road and what he should do?

     

    12 hours ago, Lemon said:

    I feel the only reason he wants to leave is to find a "better life." But no matter how far a person goes no matter how far they travel they will always be themselves.

    That's just incorrect. Define what being "themselves" is. You can't.

  23. Posted

    8 hours ago, Sarah_Flagg said:

    I have a really great guy friend who claims that men have "rules" when dating. 

    For example; if a girl sleeps with you on the first date she is not "wife material". If a girl gives head on the first day, she's a slut.

    So I want more opinions. Do men actually care about:

    • Hooking up on the first date
    • If she is groomed shaved etc.
    • If she shows her sluttiness the first time you hook up. (He claims that men like a girl on the streets but freak in the sheet, but you can't show that side to soon or it's a no)

     

    Well, men are creating rules because they lack confidence. These rules are really poor generalisations, but since they can't be authentic and think for themselves, rules create false sense of security and righteousness.

    It also applies to women.  We are playing games with each other, wasting time and energy. I'm getting butthurt just thinking about it! "Don't answer her immediately on the phone, she will think you are needy. Wait couple years", "He should wait 99 dates before sex to prove me he is worthy of attention" - what the fuck? o.O 

    It's all ego games. Normal people don't even think about this shit, they are doing whatever they feel of doing, without fear and dissapproval.

    Slut shaming and provider frame doesn't help this situation either.

    1 hour ago, FindingPeace said:

    You should only be being your authentic self

    This!