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  1. Posted

    On 10/13/2022 at 4:11 PM, flowboy said:

    xDxDxD

    Good thing that natural instinct kicks in at a certain point so the complicated stuff can be forgotten again :)

    yeah rule number 1 is dont listen to women lmao. Thats just their way of trying to get you to be in your head so they can control you. 

    do what you want and youll be A okay! I am finally learning this and accepting it fully 

  3. Posted · Edited by Tron

    8 hours ago, petar8p said:

     

     

    I don't know if he's serious at this point.

    Also I don't why it's not forbidden to be rude multiple times without any reason on this forum.. Are we trying to be conscious or what?

    She came at me sideways after I resolved my issue in my thread. Tried to tear me apart personally with some lame ass white washed bs rap. She deserved that. 

  13. Posted · Edited by Tron

    10 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @Tron

       Yeah, I know, with my all-seeing eye I got from Rolo's Basilisk, you preoccupied by lies you tell thyself, trying to beat me with rhymes, but watch the hands, your palms are sweaty, wet from the wedgy you gave yourself, spaghetti Betty, while grinding into a palm tree, I guess it's your fetish. Don't pretend, I bet with every breath, you wince from the B.E.N.D.S of beating upsets into Porcelain dolls, getting high off the narcs, end to end, with your sexist misogynistic remarks, your gymnastics suck, missing your marks like you was a used-up virgin cruiser on the verge to converging into a sublime cliff edge. So, concede, INCEL, and be like a hedgehog, submit your appendages for much needed trimming with these scissor hands of mine.

       It's worse, I type like a mad Dike, single, two black kittens for kids, with her tatas prime, priming this little Kenshin like a piece of rib eye steak, searing all sides, despite what's at stake, I marinate, politely, male hate roughly, with some ale and salt and rub it in. After, I will take my tricycle and aircraft, fly circles and rite a square around you, take the Big L and leave kid l for you. I ain't kidding, to occupy your highness's kiddie needs, here's some M$Ms for a kid like you, just don't die from obesity and diabetes, by this jester's clowning dice beats, cuz you become what you feed on, creep. Unlike Minecraft, this creeper's imploding with misery.

       What? you not a PUA player? Don't know what a lay count is? I guess your GF is mainly digital then? Don't worry, my boy, I will reeducate you on dating, relationships and sex then, for a wicked price:  your equity upfront, for the inequality your kind caused up.

       

       

       

    I didnt read that weird jumble of bs you posted. You're not funny or clever or unique 

    But I did catch the part about pua player. no Im not a pua/player. I stopped caring about lay counts when I was 19 you fuckin immature dumbass 

    You're trying to use troll tactics that aren't applicable in any way to me. You just look like an idiot rn. its actually worse, because you also think you're funny and you are clearly lame

  16. Posted · Edited by Tron

    3 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

    @Tron

       The cat/dog analogy is the female/male psychology. Notice how you're still thinking with your bed, and not with your head.

       I just want more money and fame than men get, and wears like Prada Cuz I'm a nice devil producer, my tatas can tapestry wordplays that word count in more ways than your lay counts put together. So sorry for manipulating men that cold approach like cockroaches trying to sneak under women's folds, but I'm a hot witch, after all the cockfighting's done, I roast these chickens in my oven press. So, my advice, Kenshin, is grow up and try to use real katanas this time, and not your blunt banana sword, okay? Also, stop with all that mansplaining, look-in like you still in your P.Js.

    yeah but i could beat you up in a fight over 9000 times with nothing but open palms so I guess I win. 

    mansplaining is just a term made up by women to power play in online conversations. miss me with that bullshit because I dont take that term seriously at all. 

    you also type like a woman on pof who has two kids and a bio that says "I know what I deserve! if you cant treat me like a queen and handle my kids you arent man enough!"

    fuckin obese clown ass wannabe wicca hoe 

    ps whos kenshin? 

    also wtf? lay count? you a clown fr goddamn lmao 

  17. Posted · Edited by Tron

    one of my buddies is trying to start something like that. He originally invited me as people getting together to just talk and share. and as some time went on he kept implementing more rules. How to speak, making meetings every 2 weeks mandatory so we could all keep the core strong. It was just going down a weird path that I wasn't really ready to commit to.

    I gave it a shot because I was new to the city and he's an old friend. I've known him since high school. But he's trying to be some kind of shaman now, but he still has his ego of being 'the guy'. He's a very charismatic guy and very magnetic.

    I'm not saying he's starting a cult, but I decided to leave because I didn't feel comfortable with how he was controlling everything. And due to our history I didn't see him as an appropriate leader. I saw him as an equal. 

     

    Besides I didn't wanna feel obligated to that. I was just looking for people to socialize with. 

    So yeah, I just know when people are trying to control me, and I know when it doesn't work. 

     

  19. Posted · Edited by Tron

    12 minutes ago, Ulax said:

    @Tron Okay sure.

    So my perspective is that every emotion we feel is an expression of a need. If we feel a positive emotion, then that is a result of a need having been met. If we feel a negative emotion, then that is a result of a need not being met. Further, all communications are an expression of a need as well; either its a result of a need being met or a need not being met. Actually everything we do is an expression of a need.

    Every person has the same set of needs. However, given our life experiences and biology we all develop different strategies for meeting our needs.

    So, through the lens of my perspective, it may have been that the lady, in saying what she said from the car to you, was trying to meet their need for significance, i.e. that she mattered. Maybe when she was young she learnt that the only way she could reliably meet her need to matter was by adopting the strategy of telling other people what to do.

    And, perhaps for you when you heard what that lady said to you, you felt dehumanised because your need for acceptance switched from being met to being unmet. Perhaps, when you were young a parental figure told you what to do in a similar kind of tone to that woman, and you believed they didn't accept you in that moment. So, you unconsciously learnt that when people talked to you in that way, that you were not acceptable.

    Returning to the idea of the person of the similar age to you in the same circumstance having a different reaction. That person may have felt compassion instead because they had a different life experience or biology. Perhaps, a parental figure never spoke to them in that tone, and they always felt accepted no matter what. Hence when the women speaks to them from the car there need to be accepted is still met. Hence, they instead guess at an understanding that the lady speaking from the car is trying desperately to meet a need to matter. And with that, the person meets a need for understanding which evokes the positive feeling of compassion.

    The above are all guesswork from me. What I'm trying to communicate is less about the exact need that is at play. Instead I want to communicate the idea that when trying to understand why people act in certain ways, its less important to think about what they say, and instead think about what need is being expressed.

    For example, when a person says, 'women power' in a jubilant and excited manner, its not really because of something inherent to 'women power'. Instead it is an example of people meeting a need. So, its really a celebration of survival.

    Hence, from my perspective, nothing is actually ever said that is personal towards someone else.

    Does this all make sense to you? I'm curious to hear your thoughts on it.

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    If you want me to recommend a book, that provides a more in-depth understanding of this perspective, I can do so to. Would you like that?

    that all seems entirely plausible. I know from my higher perspective that she is obviously coming from a place of insecurity or a need to feel self righteous. And yeah, the feeling unacceptable when someone comes at me like that is entirely plausible to. My dad was really hard on me as a kid, but ironically didnt really look out for me very well. So I have established this nature of being tough and not wanting people to fuck with me. And it especially made me mad regarding that certain topic. Because as we established previously, I have my criticisms towards the women equality movement. 

    But I come at guys even worse. Every job ive ever worked there was some old dude who wasnt my superior, yet theyd try to son me like I was a child, and I would come at them hard. Get in their face and tell them like it is. Maybe these things all share a common root. 

  20. Posted

    1 minute ago, Tyler Robinson said:

    Just suggesting you something is so bad? You mean to say that you cannot even accept a simple suggestion. I only requested you to not tell him to not feel the way he feels. That was just a simple request. I'll leave it here. I'm not interested in targeting you or making you feel inappropriate. No I never said that. I was just cautioning you. Maybe take a chill pill. I'm all for harmony always. Please take my suggestion instead of ignoring me. I meant everything for good reasons. Don't assume that I'm blaming you, just pointing out something that you did that you could slightly change a bit. I hope you can be criticized and you don't make big out of little corrections people make of you. 

    I appreciate you having my back. Thank you for your time and understanding :)

  21. Posted · Edited by Tron

    5 minutes ago, Ulax said:

    Sure man. Sounds like you're pretty assured that any guy would have thought she was acting stupidly but may have had a different level of response.

    As a side note, I think its important for me to note that I'm not intending to communicate that you were wrong to react, or feel the way you did. Or that another guy's potential reaction is better.

    I can tell you my perspective about what is at the cause of why you felt dehumanised. Would you like that?

     

    sure go for it. I know I got issues and past traumas and whatever. Definitely working on it, but that "woman power" bs wont help anyone

  23. Posted

    Just now, Ulax said:

    Okay.

    So you felt dehumanised. Do you think you felt dehumanised because of what she said? Or do you think you felt dehumanised because of how you interpreted what she said?

    Is it possible that if another guy your age experienced the same sort of communication in the same kind of circumstance, they could have had a different reaction? i.e. compassion, confusion, instead of a feeling of dehumanisation.

    I mean I was drunk so maybe you're onto something. But I think any guy in my position would think shes on some dumb shit. Maybe not all would have felt an injustice or anger to my extent. 

  24. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

    I'm sorry you went through this experience and how white knights on this forum constantly shaming you on this thread so that they can use you to look better

    Classic ego games these people are playing by shaming you. Some of the men who act like they understand women are the most vulture types (personal experience, learned to stay away from white knight hypocrites) 

    Coming to your situation - 

    You didn't deserve it. That woman in the car was a total nut job. She didn't need to make it about gender. She was trying to be condescending and shaming you. That wasn't fair and it was unnecessary for her to act like she knows the situation better. 

    She didn't have to add - woman power. 

    It was menacing of her to do that just like a casual insult or put down. 

    These are the kind of feminists we must avoid because they are about female dominance over men rather than true equality 

     

    Regarding your obligation - 

    You already did a good job trying to keep her safe. It wasn't your responsibility though when someone chooses to deliberately put themselves in danger. You could have ended up risking your own life by running after her. 

    And equality in this specific situation means you should treat her just the way you would treat a male friend who is drunk. 

    She is not a child. She should not get a pass for her behavior if she is drunk. She is a responsible person like all responsible persons, the gender is irrelevant. 

    You tried to help her but she wouldn't take it. So it wasn't your duty to protect her anymore. 

    It's time we hold women accountable for their wrong behavior just like we do to men. Otherwise it's not fair to always let women off the hook. 

    You did the right thing in the situation and you had no further obligation because gender is irrelevant when someone is being or going wrong or being reckless and belligerent like your friend. 

    And the woman yelling out of the car was shaming you because she got her own issues. She must be that dominating feminist who likes telling men what to do meanwhile she never looks in the mirror herself and blames men for all her stupid issues. 

    I'm sorry you went through this experience, it must have been humiliating to be publicly embarrassed by the woman in the car yelling at you. 

    So don't take that woman seriously and there are women who aren't like that. 

    That's all. 

     

    thank you!