egoeimai

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  2. Posted

    37 minutes ago, somegirl said:

     

    However it is interesting to me that you're friends with 17 years older guy. :) Wonder what common topics one can have with that much older person.

     

    I can chat with any age. Older people are so much more interesting to me. They have knowledge, wisdom, and the self confidence that lacks in me. Also, he's not the only older friend I have. Older ppl are awesome. So cool.

     

    35 minutes ago, something_else said:

    Guys don’t spontaneously develop attraction for girls a year later. They know within 5 seconds whether they’re attracted to a girl or not

    I would like to say that same applies to girls, but I thought twice, it doesn't work like that with us girls. We can suddenly like you after a whole year. 

    Thing is, it's sad, because I know guys who didn't like me from the beginning and told me that they will maybe develop feelings for me in the future. Anywayz

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    I said I don't want to be in a relationship in general. But he said, "you know I'm chill vibe I just want my peace and company and have fun etc etc you can come stay with me and we'll have time for ourselves" he meant he likes his peace. So he implied he won't bothrr me or cling on me or something. But that's not the point!!! The point is that I'm not planning to move from my home city. That's so sad that I'll lose a friend. I hate this 

  5. Posted · Edited by egoeimai

    That's making me nervous. I really respect and appreciate this guy. We just can't be togetherhe told me if I want to live with him and come here talk to my parents. That's too much.

     

     Its so hard to tell him. But because he's a good guy, I will tell him. I already told him that I don't wanna be in a relationship. Idk if that was clear answer or not. He said are u rejecting me? I don't think it will be very hard for him because he seems to have a healthy self esteem but I don't wanna lose the friendship

     

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    So. I've been talking with a guy who's probably 17 years older than me. Although I believe he's faking his age. But we have a huge age gap. We've been talking for almost a year now. He's very kind, caring, optimistic, has a kinda healthy self esteem. He's hilarious we are talking daily.

    So yesterday he confessed he likes me. I thought it was a joke. He keeps complimenting me, I dont know what to say. He also told me if I want to marry him, he kindly proposed. I tried not to answer and distract him with something else. But today, he keeps saying similar stuff. I feel very uncomfortable. I dont know what happened to him. We've been talking for so many months but now he says this. Why is that? 

    There's no way I'll be with this guy. Although he's a good guy and funny and kind and never plays any games. He's mature and never hurts me. Idk what to say. Age gap is a no no for me. My ideal age gap would only be 2-3 years difference max. I would prefer same age. Also, I don't like his looks. And I would never imagine him to be my one. We were friends. I think I'm losing a very valuable friend now. It's hard.

  8. Posted

    @Elton babyyy nooo not both. I'm just gonna have to start with one of them.

     

    @Osaid i I meant refined sugar, I didn't mention it. 

    @Charlotte hey girllll how have you been? Oh I'm just trying to achieve a level of healthy diet, pure, nutritious and amazing. I removed sodium for health reasons, so I've been wanting to eliminate a source of calories bc I have to lose weight for health reasons. Besides that, I'm not a fan of sugar anyways, even though I know it's everywhere like sodium so yeah. It's not natural to consume refined sugar. We were not born with these needs.

    @Michael569 the only sort of excessive amount of sugar I consume is in ice tea so yeah. For example I rarely drink frizzy drinks or eat chocolate. From the other hand, bread is empty calories without nutrition so I guess both I dont need.

     

  12. Posted

    50 minutes ago, Noahsteelers34 said:

    It’s not a desperate move. The desperate thing for me to do is for me to give her my love and attention when she’s looking for other guys. It’s not desperate to have boundaries for your feelings. She actually thought the thread was funny then she showed me all the Reddit posts she’s been viewing about it. Also you don’t know what your talking about, me telling her I wanted to date her did not cause her to want to see other guys. It’s called Simple’s being honest about how you feel. There is no reason it is the females responsibility to do that  

    I totally agree. It's not a desperate move. Being honest and polite at the same time is actually very attractive trait and whoever doesn't appreciate this, is not worth of your time and essence.

  13. Posted

    3 hours ago, SeaMonster said:

    It means you're being a lying prick and chopping a quote to change its meaning. >:(

    Totally loved this answer ? ? ?

    3 hours ago, Noahsteelers34 said:

    I just showed her this entire thread. I ended things. We’ll see if she comes running back later

    Well no you wouldn't want her to come back if it was your future self seeing all this you would say no 

    @Knowledge Hoarder trust me she doesn't give a fuck. Don't worry. It is how it is.

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    1 hour ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:

    I can send you screenshots with conversations, if you want. I'm not making shit up, there are women out there who will let you do it. Don't assume every woman is like you, and is interested in the same things you are. There are women who even LIKE sharing one man. I know, shocking.

    I can already anticipate somebody's answer to this: "But these women have low self-esteem, and low sense of self worth!" Shut up bro?

    If she'd let you do it, she doesn't give a shit about you. Trust me, she never liked you.

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    Hey, your acne is not bad. How's it going with skincare?

    As for the topic, just let her go. Of course it's great thst she's honest with you, but at the same time its painful for your ego. And of course it's her life so she could do anything, but if that doesn't involve you, just leave! You're not some desperate guy who's gonna wait for eternity! Detach from her. She chose what she chose. She can't have everything, don't spoil her by staying with her and giving her all. She doesn't worth it. Nobody can have everything he/she asks for. She can't play with you whilst having other guys too. Let her go. You want a relationship type of girl. She won't have it all. It doesn't work after all. 

  21. Posted

    Oh well, Leo.

    That's a great task to start my day.lol

    So... I dont remember much from my childhood but

    Most of the memos are with my mother. She used to take care of us and was a hard working woman as well. Still is. Used to take care of us all the time and didn't have time for herself. Always in the run. I was looking forward for her to return home as I was a child, I was waiting to hear the keys ringing.  Taking care of us, helping us with homework everyday, going to the cinema or theatre together. Always by our side when sick. A loving memory is when she was saying goodnight and covering us with the blanket. I sometimes still want that. Or maybe a bar of chocolate after homework, I remember her saying only one because it's not for everyday. She supports healthy eating very much herself, rarely eats junk maybe once per year. 

    My father was always emotionally and generally absent and still is.One loving memory is when it was Christmas he was recording us singing and mocking us at the same time. Another one, is that he still remembers our baby words and sometimes till now he's making fun of us. Lol that's probably it for him. 

    My loving grandpa was the best thing that happened to me. He taught us how to be fair, polite and moral. He was the best person. He died at the age of 84. I wish he could live more. 

  22. Posted

    Hey,

    Its not like we meet a person and next step is marriage. See what happens in the long run. You want a relationship with her but you're afraid of losing her. Do you ever believe in "meant to be?" thingy? It goes like this, If you're super matchy matchy you're not going to forget each other or move on with another. Don't stress about it, if it's unique it'll stay. Just have fun and don't ruin it.