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  1. 4 minutes ago, thibault said:

    What kind of reaction are you expecting from him ?

    Even though he's generally a calm person, I expect a furious response, he will be kinda pissed. I think he will never appreciate me as a person again. Even though he's a secure man that breathes confidence, I'm not sure how  he's gonna take it. I hope he gets back to normal soon and forget about it.@somegirl I see. Thanks I will think about these. He started acting nicer indeed and he says stuff like "ofc I wanna please you and never make you feel unsatisfied with anything" 

  2. 2 minutes ago, Raze said:

    The guy made a mistake of following mainstream advice and by not making his intentions clear from the start and landed in the friend zone. Judging by his attempts to woo her being just complimenting her over and over unfortunately he lacks experience. Its easier to create attraction from someone who hates you than to create attraction from a platonic friendship. 
    It’s not OP’s fault. If she was maintaining the relationship for ego gratification she wouldn’t be surprised by his confession because she would already suspect he liked her.

    Exactly. I'm not an attention seeker although I like attention I would never use him for comments. Fact is, he only started to compliment me now (2 days ago)after his confessions, not earlier. We've been talking for a year almost. He was talking friendly caring-ly, no flirting.

  3. 18 minutes ago, thibault said:

    Why do you fear rejecting him frankly ? Because you know (at least subconsciously) that since the beginning, all he was interested was being with you in a romantic way, and you know that if he loses hope he will disappear from your life.

    Otherwise what do you have to fear in just being honest with him ?

    Because I'll lose the friendship and I don't wanna hurt his feelings. I was always finding hard to reject a person because it's hard for me being rejected by others.

    18 minutes ago, zurew said:

    Be very suspicious with guys who are single. The chances are that they are interested in you and thats why they are chatting with you is very high. I am sure there is a very few exception to this "rule" but in the majority of the cases they are attracted to you.

    You can test most of them by talking about your boyfriend even if you don't have one. 

    We talk to eachother about others. So... He didn't seem to bother