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  7. Posted · Edited by LiakosN

    Yesterday we talked about what happened. Told her that this event traumatised me and she told me "not even"..."trauma is something that happened in our childhood" (is that true?). It seemed that it didn't bother her. 

    Then she said that she had no regrets for how she acted and what she said because she was fully conscious...

    Narcissistic behaviour? 

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    13 hours ago, integral said:

    Are you attached to her? Its very likely she will rip your heart out by cheating and doing more hurtful things while at the same time accusing you of being the problem. There's no winning and I get how you feel youve spent alot of time and energy walking on egg shells around her and making sure she is happy, but its unfortunate not a sustainable solution.

    Chasing her is absolutely wrong, she wants to chase a man she cant tame with her bullshit.

    Unfortunately your to loving for her, so its a major mismatch. There are people out there that you will connected with so much better and youll look back at all this in hindsight with a smile. 

    @integral I think yes, I am attached to some degree. My mind, also, tends to see the positive traits and Ι am willfully blind to the negatives.

    You are correct on both that I was sure to make her happy and that I have wasted so much energy: time, emotions and money.

    "she wants to chase a man she cant tame".  Wow! Really got it! Absolutely! Οnce she told me that she wants a man, who will fully complete her and she can not compromise for anything else.

    @PlayOnWords No, not yet. We are still "friends" on social. I' ve told her that I would never have something romantically with her (no sex, no relationship). And I will keep my word! Never want to live something similar to what I have experienced.

    @Sucuk Ekmek What do you mean? Like, if she takes care of her health or...?

    @MarkKol Me neither. After this experience. Definitely, I' will be more alert to bad behaviors! 

     

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    @r0ckyreed You mean Borderline Personality Disorder, right?

    @integral I tried to set boundaries with a kind and calm way, so not to repeat what she ways sayings (because it was insulting for me), and she made fun of the way I imposed them. Nor to mention the fact that she did not want to understand. You are right!
    @MarkKol Hehe. Yes, wish I could just leave her to leave and never had to go find her. But....

    @PlayOnWords What do you mean by: Dodged a bullet?

  10. Posted

    @Leo Gura Indeed, the situation was getting worse as time was passing, as I can recall.

    When she hit me with her fist, then she told me: Did I hurt you? Because, I do not want to feel guilty. She did not even apologize after the event.

    There was a time I said: I love you and she responded: I do not f***** care!

     

    So, it was my fault that I did not end the relationship, because I cared for her. But, I lost my dignity and self-respect.

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    @Leo Gura At some point, Leo, I was doubting myself. I was thinking that I was the one that was always fault. Oh, by the way one night we were laying on bed together, there was a bird outside singing and she told: I want to kill this bird!
    Other things she said

    - You are such a giving person and another time - You are stingy

    - You are very supportive and another time - You can support me only on practical matters

    - I like having sex with you and another time - Sex is 1/10 with you

    I told her via phone that I want to hug her and she got angry (because it was not possible to hug her) and after a few minutes she told me that she would like to hug me.

    - She blocked me on social and after 2 weeks she unblocked me asking me to wash her clothes.

    I was loosing my mind.

    No, I am not projecting on her.. These are her words

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    Hey guys! Hope you are doing fine!
    I had a terrible break almost a month ago. Meaning my girlfriend was physically violent to me. So I had to end the relationship.
    At first, she had a good behavior towards me. After 3 months the behavior changed a bit. I told her that I want an exclusive relationship with her and she told me that she wanted an open relationship. Well, this kind of... "relationship" lasted 4,5 years. We lived for 10 months at the same place (different houses) and the rest from distance. During this period, she broke up with me via a phone call telling me that: I don't want to talk to you anymore. Then after 6 months she texted me asking how am I doing. Long story short we got "back together". Oh, btw, she was telling me that I am a liar, I am fearful, I am a chameleon, I do not have my own opinion. She was often angry and I was feeling like I was walking next to eggs, afraid of breaking them. She told me that she could love me, but not fall in love with me and even that we do not match romantically. She told me I am a narcissist.
    Last time we met she told me that she wanted to be with me but I am not acting right towards her. We had a terrible fight because she thought to I was seeing other girls (I did not). She left from my home, and I went to find her. I was trying to tell her to come home to sleep, because it was cold and rainy outside. She refused and then I left after 20 minutes. Then she phone called me and said that I abandoned her. I went back and picked her with my car. Then in my home as I was trying to sleep she was turning the lights on and off and when I told her I will lock my bedroom door, she hit me. She told me that I should be embarrassed that a woman hit me.
    After all these she told me that she want no contact and that shed would delete me from all social media. But she didn't. Also, she phone called me once to she how am I doing.

    What is wrong with her behavior? Could it possibly be BP disorder?

  24. Posted · Edited by LiakosN

    Yesterday I told a girl that I do not want to ejaculate and waste my sexual energy and she was offended saying : I don't like a man that does not cum, I don't want to become a Guinea pig for you just to practice non ejaculation... She is thinking of leaving me.. 

    Also, she told me that she want sex all day, I would become a whore if it wasn't for my conscience... 

    I was like fuck man why I even told it....