[Childhood Trauma/ Sexual Abuse]

I don't know how to help you, but I'm here to say that I really sympathize with your situation and really sorry that you faced it.

[Nofap=no libido]

Maybe you should try to use sex toys, e.g prostate dildos https://joynights.org/best-prostate-dildos/ I've chosen the first one. This thing takes some initial work and sits differently inside than other prostate toys. I like the tabs on this one a little better. The material is great because it cleans easily, is super smooth, and goes in easily. I have a few other toys and this one is by far the most rigid (and expensive) and it does a good job -- slightly better than others. Prostate massage is known to increase erection

[I'm Not Sure We're Compatible]

How long have you been dating? 

[Fake masculinity will not get you laid]

agree, men who love themselves (not too much), are very attractive 

[Girls dance with me, now what?]

just try ask her out for the coffee, it's not a big deal

[Why seeing two guys kissing or having sex makes me feel uncomfortable?]

I don't like looking at sex at all 

[should i abandon my family?]

You should separate so your parents won't annoy you. So far, you're very dependent on their opinion. But I understand you, I have exactly the same problem

[How to relate to Male emotions and understand my man better?]

you have such superficial thinking, probably because you think that a man should be brutal, because of this you deny his sensitivity and can't feel everything. Drop the idea that a man should be a flint.

[What is your opinion on people who cheat/commit adultery?]

On 13.06.2022 at 9:42 PM, Breakingthewall said:

Many people are in a relationship like someone who has a job: they need it but it's a pain in the ass. they need stability, to mean something to someone, to be loved and to love, but they also want to fuck with many girls, or boys (although it's more for men imo). since they do not conceive of having an open relationship, and having sex only with their partner until death do us part, it seems like death in life, and being without their partner seems unbearable to them, they lie and look for sex out there. a logical solution. I have been there and for me the only option, very difficult, has been to break up the couple. I can't be in a relationship since I start with that loop that lowers you and turns you into a scammer and a piece of shit. better alone

totally agree with you, especially about stability

[I am absolutely amazed by this couple]

On 12.06.2022 at 4:32 AM, somegirl said:

 

Gives me chills that this kind of romantic interaction exists and is actually possible. Imagine what the world would look like if everyone was this open, in touch with their emotions, understanding and honest. Their child is so lucky. 

Does anynone have any other examles of relationships that are similar to this?

Yeah, it looks like they went through a whole course of psychotherapy

[When is the right time to share your romantic feelings for someone?]

I suppose after this text message, you both can go on a date. Don't wait too long 

[Dating around to find what you like]

7 hours ago, Jacob Morres said:

So I like to eat everything on a restaurant menu sometimes, try things out and see what I like the most. Then I just order the fuck out of those 2-3 things everytime 

Do you sort of do that with people as well? 

Sounds really awful. People aren't menu

[How to react to “recently I broke up with my bf”]

for me it could be a red flag