Harlen Kelly

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  1. @Raptorsin7 Question, do you think that maybe (just maybe), hundreds of years of governmental, deliberate and institutionalized oppression in forms of slavery, jim crow, segregation, mass incarceration, etc. could have lingering negative consequences on a particular community?

    And, the idea of ''pull yourself up by your bootstrap'', is that a solution an intellectually sophisticated, scientifically-minded, fairly educated person would espouse or would such a person instead have a systemic, holistic perspective about the situation or on the other hand, is that a solution a witless simpleton would come up with?

    Just a thought experiment. 


  2. 50 minutes ago, SQAAD said:

    This pickup business is not about being truly authentic and genuine to who you are. Its all a facade. Changing yourself to fit the criteria of other egoic minds so you are not perceived as ''creepy''. Changing how you truly are because you are afraid of getting rejected. Its just jumping throught hoops to achieve a certain result. It has nothing to do with authenticity.  Pickup is all about doing whatever will work on the mind of a woman. Changing yourself to fit her needs and desires.

    Leo is basically telling us that we shouldn't be the way we are. Otherwise we won't attract girls from the social matrix. That is the bottom line. Maybe my authentic self is the shy nerdy type.

    Question, do you think ''who you truly are'' (whatever that means) or the self is a behavioral pattern such as shyness or confidence or do you think behavioral patterns are characteristics of the self? 

    I ask the question because you allude to behavioral patterns as if they were immutable characteristics or ''who you truly are'' when we already know that a person can manifest a very wide range of behavioral patterns depending upon the environment they find themselves in, they person they are interacting with, etc. 


  3. 5 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:

    You guys are all crazy with your delusional beliefs.

    If some guys can do it it doesn't mean that everyone can.

    And no believing that something will work wont make it work.  If that would be the case I would have got a gf before when I thought I could.

    If you are not looking to improve and are stubborn about your belief system, what do you hope to accomplish with your post, to wallow in your victimhood? 


  4. @Blackhawk Attracting women is a skill, like any other skill it can be mastered but you obviously won't be able to master that skill if you are not putting any effort.  

    You don't even personally know guys who are good at it which tells me that you didn't really try at all. 

    What's ironic is how fun, enjoyable and relatively easy game becomes once you have done it for a sufficient amount of time, the problem is most guys give up within the first month or even weeks. 


  5. @Blackhawk I mean, if you consistently go out to deliberately work on your game with experienced wings, you will be better than 90% of guys at attracting women within 6 - 12 months, this has already been done by thousands of guys. 

    Are you currently going out on a consistent basis and do you personally know a guy that is exceptionally good at attracting women?