-
Content count
782 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Posts posted by Harlen Kelly
-
-
7 hours ago, bejapuskas said:@Derek White Footfetish is not a construct. There is a nerve that connects feet and the clit.
Where did you get this from?
-
6 hours ago, KatiesKarma said:TDLR: wasted my life, turning 19 in a few days, criminal refugee family, no friends , not exactly a good future in store for me
how exactly have you wasted your life if you are only 19?
-
@SamC What about you do pick up for a while and figure out the response yourself.
-
@yolosmoothie Be careful not to send that to a chick you want to get with, she might block you from all her social media accounts.
-
22 hours ago, Javfly33 said:I´m not ready to do direct approaches, I´m currently learning to just learn to stop women clearly and assertively and just ask for time, directions and little else.
You might as well not go out at all, you are wasting your time by asking for directions.
-
@Knowledge Hoarder Based on your logic, Germany should've left the Nazi Statues for the purpose of ''not rejecting their country's history''.
-
3 hours ago, Gesundheit2 said:Besides, women love dirty men, anyway.
???? ? ? Can I get Amen
-
@captainamerica You made an asinine assertion, said you were going to be more specific and now you are deflecting.
How does that make any sense.
-
1 minute ago, Knowledge Hoarder said:Shit, maybe I should revert back to my old mindset then. I guess that was true authenticity!
An incel type of guy should never think about changing his behavioral patterns because that would be against ''who he truly is'' (whatever that means).
I can't find a proper descriptor for such a spurious line of reasoning.
-
50 minutes ago, SQAAD said:This pickup business is not about being truly authentic and genuine to who you are. Its all a facade. Changing yourself to fit the criteria of other egoic minds so you are not perceived as ''creepy''. Changing how you truly are because you are afraid of getting rejected. Its just jumping throught hoops to achieve a certain result. It has nothing to do with authenticity. Pickup is all about doing whatever will work on the mind of a woman. Changing yourself to fit her needs and desires.
Leo is basically telling us that we shouldn't be the way we are. Otherwise we won't attract girls from the social matrix. That is the bottom line. Maybe my authentic self is the shy nerdy type.
Question, do you think ''who you truly are'' (whatever that means) or the self is a behavioral pattern such as shyness or confidence or do you think behavioral patterns are characteristics of the self?
I ask the question because you allude to behavioral patterns as if they were immutable characteristics or ''who you truly are'' when we already know that a person can manifest a very wide range of behavioral patterns depending upon the environment they find themselves in, they person they are interacting with, etc.
-
4 minutes ago, Electron said:If you seek truth, manipulating, and playing the game of the world can certainly "feel" like a backward step.
Humans, irrespective of their level of consciousness, are constantly manipulating reality.
-
1 minute ago, Blackhawk said:I don't change opinion about facts.
Sure, try not to infect others with your ''facts''.
-
3 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:but my opinion will remain, which I will keep to myself
That's not surprising.
-
Just now, Blackhawk said:Just venting.
This toxic, festering negativity is why you can't make friends and being negative just for the sake of being negative lowers the standards of this forum.
-
5 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:You guys are all crazy with your delusional beliefs.
If some guys can do it it doesn't mean that everyone can.
And no believing that something will work wont make it work. If that would be the case I would have got a gf before when I thought I could.
If you are not looking to improve and are stubborn about your belief system, what do you hope to accomplish with your post, to wallow in your victimhood?
-
@Blackhawk Attracting women is a skill, like any other skill it can be mastered but you obviously won't be able to master that skill if you are not putting any effort.
You don't even personally know guys who are good at it which tells me that you didn't really try at all.
What's ironic is how fun, enjoyable and relatively easy game becomes once you have done it for a sufficient amount of time, the problem is most guys give up within the first month or even weeks.
-
23 minutes ago, Blackhawk said:No
Last question, why do you expect results in a domain you are not putting any effort?
-
@Blackhawk I mean, if you consistently go out to deliberately work on your game with experienced wings, you will be better than 90% of guys at attracting women within 6 - 12 months, this has already been done by thousands of guys.
Are you currently going out on a consistent basis and do you personally know a guy that is exceptionally good at attracting women?
-
2 hours ago, Blackhawk said:I as a guy simply cannot get a gf when things are like that. There's always a huge amount of guys who are better than me in every area.
By better than you, you mean the have better game than you?
-
@spiritual memes Do 10-20 minutes of daily visualization. Thank me later!
-
@Arcangelo Source: trust me bro!
-
@captainamerica I am still waiting, you basically made a groundless assertion with no evidence whatsoever to back it up, what is the need for non-sensical utterances?
-
5 hours ago, captainamerica said:I was seriously considering supporting AOC before. Her policy and understanding will end up hurting people instead of helping them in the long term.
Elaborate, what policies supported or brought forward by AOC will hurt people?
Be specific.
-
"What you define as "toxic" is based on your relative survival agenda."
"But not wanting to pay your bills when you go broke is not disrespectful of women, Lol."
One would think this should be common knowledge in a self-development forum, apparently it isn't.
in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly
@Raptorsin7 Question, do you think that maybe (just maybe), hundreds of years of governmental, deliberate and institutionalized oppression in forms of slavery, jim crow, segregation, mass incarceration, etc. could have lingering negative consequences on a particular community?
And, the idea of ''pull yourself up by your bootstrap'', is that a solution an intellectually sophisticated, scientifically-minded, fairly educated person would espouse or would such a person instead have a systemic, holistic perspective about the situation or on the other hand, is that a solution a witless simpleton would come up with?
Just a thought experiment.