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  3. Posted

    @ADVAIT the issue is, your post could literally lead to dire consequences. 

    It would be less problematic to suggest for people try achieving clear skin with their mindset through subliminals or command cell therapy for example. (Not saying this stuff is true, but it's an interesting perspective).

     

    1 hour ago, ADVAIT said:

    I said "I think even if a person drinks a poison and believes he will not die, and not give a fuck he will not die" because humans have survived in tremendous situations.

    Have all humans survived tremendous situations? Wim Hof to the extreme? What are you actually talking about...
    This is foolish and dangerous. 

     

  4. Posted

    On 11/16/2020 at 3:29 AM, Yarco said:

    This is probably a highly biased group to ask based on the posts above. But if you could go back in time, would you have never started taking SSRIs and suffered with the alternative instead? Have you guys found any alternatives to SSRIs that help you cope? Maybe some kind of introspection work or meditation instead?

    I haven't had SSRIs and everyone and their case is different, but for me- pretty much yeah. Consistent meditation and introspection helped me get over depression around 5-10 years ago (as well as other emotional issues over the years).

    The most simplest solutions when taken seriously work wonders. Especially when you're in a toxic victim mindset (I'm not saying all depression links to this) it's easy to brush off solutions such as thorough journalling and mindfulness practices.

    I just want to say this to anyone struggling: it is VERY POSSIBLE to get over this stuff completely, even more than merely coping with it. Whether that be on your own, with a therapist and CBT or whatever, you have hope!! 

    Edit: oops just checked the quoted post is from 2 months ago

     

  5. Posted

    Although I don't agree with everything being said (the recent heated discussion). 

    Lovely girlies @Khr @Preety_India
    Use this as a learning experience, if you're going round in circles during arguments, increase your awareness/mindfulness and take care of yourselves please! Your peace of mind is more important than getting at the other person (which turns into an endless argument and waste of time!) ??

    Try putting yourself in the other person's shoes (even if you hate where they're coming from), empathize deeply and move on! You can't change anyone with such arguments. 

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    On 08/01/2021 at 5:52 AM, How to be wise said:

    This is very common outside the west. Men prevent women from attending religious sites because they don’t want to be distracted by a woman’s beauty and the sexual desire caused by looking at a woman. Classic stage Blue repression.

    Whilst recently the Dalai Lama said he would wish his successor to be attractive if she was a woman ???‍♀️

    Make up your minds lads. 

     

    The wisest men for millenia were blue, including those enlightened. Perhaps many of their ideas are turquoise but still have attachments to blue ideology. (In regards to some teachers today too, not fully sure). O.o

  10. Posted

    21 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    Do most people care about their significant other? (variation 1) Or do they care about what the other offers them? Like good company, sex, perhaps strengthening financial situation and other things? (variation 2)

    You can still care about someone whilst simultaneously breaking up with them.

    Say for example, your sexual needs weren't being met in a relationship even after putting in the effort to sort it out - e.g. they just didn't want to have sex anymore but you did. You can still care about someone's wellbeing and life whilst no longer being satisfied in a relationship with them (as you also care about your own rship desires being met). 

    I think if you're in love with someone, it's not a question of variation 1 or variation 2- because they are both involved. This is because romantic love isn't romantic unconditional love. Or else people would stay in a relationship regardless of how many times a person cheats or does other questionable things.

    The popular notion of the love languages (including quality time, acts of service etc ) themselves involve caring about what the other person has to offer, since they are an act of love and about fulfilling your individual desires in a relationship. 

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    1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

    How will you give them happiness if you don't have any neediness for them? Isn't it like a give and take sort of a thing? If you don't need them, wouldn't you have the same attitude toward them? 

    If you're giving someone happiness, it's temporary happiness because it doesn't last after you're not with the person, and needs to keep being refilled. This is why it should ideally be created internally for everyone, but there's nothing wrong with supporting someone to turn internally (it's up to them to take it on board though).

    Ultimately whether it be relationships, money, success or whatever you desire, the supposed happiness/positive feeling of having the external things is being chased. This feeling can be created internally without any of those external things anyway! (E.g simply visualizing any of your desires can give you the feeling of having it- when you work on maintaining such a feeling, you realize you don't NEED the external thing anyway!) 

    But ofc you can still want things without having a need for them. So you can still want a relationship, knowing that it's simply the icing on top of the (already delicious) cake. So you can still be a decent partner (arguably a better partner) when the neediness is gone. :)

    1 hour ago, soos_mite_ah said:

    @Leo Gura  you could also swing too far in the other direction where you bottle everything up inside and don't let anyone help you which then hinders or slows down the growth process. 

    Yeah in many cases talking to a high quality person can be the stepping stones in the right direction to also come up with solutions for how they can help themselves on their own too. As bottling emotions from others isn't so much the issue, it's bottling them from yourself - releasing and facing your problems- whether that be in the form of a journal, self talk or talking/therapy with other people is the medium.

    Bottling emotions from others becomes a big issue when a person is repressing the issue from themselves whilst thinking it's being solved (e.g. keeping busy instead of facing the problems). 

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    8 hours ago, soos_mite_ah said:

    I grew up ugly so because of that I have made peace with the possibility of dying alone.

    Well good thing you're a stunning (& wise) girl now ;)

    34 minutes ago, soos_mite_ah said:

    I'm not chasing and obsessing. I'm just living my life, minding my own business, and finding random things, topics, and people who interests me.  

    Fair enough and good for you! :D You're super young and it's something you could put more effort into the future if you wanted to anyway. 

     

     

     

  14. Posted

    This forum is like 80% men, so you're only seeing a disproportionate amount of issues by a lot of guys here too. 

    No doubt, for an insecure woman to read some of these threads would hurt. Such as the big emphasis on looks over anything. In addition to society already having way higher beauty standards for women anyway, with certain upbringings and wiring heightening these insecurities. (The main reasons I've ever wished I was a guy in the past ? so I can not give a shit about how I look and be  more carefree in regards to this). 

    Looks (and personality) don't seem to matter at allll if a girl wants sex with almost any guy ? But when it comes to dating apparently they do.

    Trust issues forming after women being with players or being used sexually and hence the "men are trash" rhetoric resulting is ofc a popular notion and also leads to limiting beliefs in dating (more so than for men).

    There is also the general lack of understanding between the sexes which happens here too which causes a lot of the frustrations. 

    I don't imagine Mathew Hussey has ever said how important looks are for women in attraction and would get a lot of hate for it! His advice is decent for the non-physical parts of dating and relationships though. 

     

     

     

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    57 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    The progressive slogan to defund the police is probably the clearest example of stage Green stupidity. I understand that they mostly mean to reallocate funds to social work and the like, but a social worker is not gonna stop a crowd of MAGA idiots. That slogan -- defund the police -- is like political suicide.

    True!!

    Although there tends to be a lot of comparison of how the police would supposedly react quicker or differently if it had been BLM etc protestors. 

    Like this tweet alludes to a lot of MAGA idiots = police, due to a lack of trust on who's side the police is on and whether they will carry out their job as they should...

    Which would really point to greater funding rather than less (and arms and training you mentioned) to protect everyone including us green goblins ??‍♀️

    Green twitter can be a bad echo chamber too with everyone blaming the "bad guys", whether that be the police, government, rich people... all day, everyday, people just wanting someone to blame...very negative and tiring to see now. 

  16. Posted

    On 1/4/2021 at 10:30 PM, Rilles said:

    Atleast you CAN talk about it! 

    Exactly hahaha ?

    On 1/4/2021 at 11:43 PM, ItsNick said:

    And I really see it more as healthy Blue because she's open to me finding my own way (which has gotten me to the freedom I have today) but yet she still cannot grasp that "seeking truth" is of higher value than being a good Christian.

    Oh well, maybe she'll continue to grow and become more open minded...or not, either way it doesn't matter too much. It's great she just lets you be even if she doesn't agree. 

     

    @andyjohnsonman Katie Hopkins has said a lot of ridiculous things seemingly to just get a reaction and gain attention though. Perhaps it's a "Be careful what you wish for" scenario lmao

  18. Posted

    3 hours ago, Rilles said:

    And then he gets PTSD and needs help from someone more developed like a snowflake therapist to get in touch with his feelings.

     

     

    Funny how it works. 

    Lool and regular guys who are attached to this expectation of being "alpha" often avoid things like therapy to not seem vulnerable. When actually, embodying more femininity would probably avoid a lot of male suicides. 

     

  20. Posted

    21 hours ago, Tim R said:

    "For the first time in my life I said 'thank you'. I realized that I've said 'thank you' thousands of times in my life, but it was all perfunctory. It was all just mindless 'thank you'."

    Damn.

    FEELING is the secret and true gratitude works like magic :D

  25. Posted

    Tbh I agree with you, not from doing much "spiritual work" or learning but mostly from what I've experienced so far.

    Who knows, I could maybe change my mind later, but I agree with this "truth" right now. 

    The ultimate "truth" or enlightenment people are chasing here...is ultimately for happiness. Even if people are saying it's just for knowledge or understanding...I still think it's to receive the FEELING that uncovering such truths or enlightenment gives. Which is positive = some form of happiness (even if there are negative feelings through the journey). Ultimately, the FEELING of happiness is being chased. 

    But the chasing doesn't need to happen if the feeling already exists. (There's nothing "wrong" with chasing but also realising that you'll probably always be chasing).