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  7. Posted

    @Preety_India

    3 hours ago, Preety_India said:

    @kray I think these two things are very different. 

    Being respectful to a woman is not the same as being a simp. Respect is the most basic human need and everyone deserves it equally. The whole idea that respecting a woman is simping her is antiquated. Now coming to real simping. Simping in my mind equates to putting a woman on a pedestal and almost worshiping her to the point where you don't challenge her bad behavior, this is what I would call simping. Respect on the other hand means giving the other person their due share and it's regardless of gender, so if you texted your girlfriend at the wrong time or did something that she finds degrading, I would call that disrespectful. 

    But the opposite of that is not the same as simping, it's just giving basic respect. 

     

    Yea you put it nicely 

  8. Posted

    13 hours ago, Rilles said:

    Never implied that, I was making a larger point that the most common perspective here is from Pickup, being respectful to women and Pickup dont co-exist, atleast not Pickup in its Stage Orange form.

    I agree, but I would replace being respectful to women with being a simp. You can still respectfully approach and pickup a woman, but you shouldn't put her on a pedestal. Even the the hottest girl you see should never be viewed as greater than yourself. 

  12. Posted

    4 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    I texted her 2 days after meeting her.

    This was the conversation through text:

    Me: hi

    She: hi

    Me: how are you?

    She: good, you?

    Me: I'm fine too, tomorrow it is going to be good weather, do want to go for a walk?

    She: yes, that is fine

    Me: ok, let's meet at 14:00 at the gate

    *No reply*

    Me: ? (3 hours later)

     

    At that was the end of it.

    That is the only option right now because of Corona.

    If I'm gonna be honest here, this convo seems a bit on the mundane side. Maybe try adding a little bit humor next time? Even some flirting? 

  15. Posted

    A lot of girls like the attention you give them. Sometimes they might not even have an inch of attraction towards you, but they still love the attention as it helps boost their own egos. I would say that if you are attracted to someone early on, I would avoid being a simp for her, and instead be clear from the start. Not only should make your attraction for her obvious, but you have to make a MOVE early on. Ask her out on a date early on, and if she rejects or skews away from that subject, simply back off and move on with your own life. Your life is more valuable than any woman you encounter. You'll get through this pain brother. 

  16. Posted

    14 hours ago, Superfluo said:

    Don't know, but you may want to take a multivitamin, alcohol depletes vitamin stores in the body.

    Can you stay away from alcohol easily? If so, you might not be alcoholic. Ask yourself why you drank so much.

    Also, you could check out Gabor Maté on youtube, he talks about the relationship between emotional wounds and various types of addictions.

    I guess I wanted to let loose, I'm generally a tight person, and alcohol helps me loosen up. 

  18. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Spiral Wizard said:

    I love that perspective! 
     

    Damn, that’s something others have been talking about?! 
    A few years ago, a similar idea intuitively came to me. Seems logical... Getting this external validation is exciting haha

    This universe is so amazing man :x

    Yea, that's exactly what it is. It's like if the existence of aliens was real, it would just prove how big and infinite the universe is, which is in itself really exciting. 

  19. Posted · Edited by kray
    Grammer

    @diamondpenguin Honestly, if they are aliens, then they probably just see us as low consciousness creatures, just how we see ants. If they hypothetically came down to earth, everything going on would seem like absurdity. It's like if a human shrunk, and went into a bees nest. We would just see the chaos that is bees flying around each other and buzzing. Similarly if an alien saw human society, to them we would probably be just a part of the planet's animal kingdom, creatures that walk around and do things to survive. We have to remember that the universe isn't humancentric ;) 

  21. Posted

    19 minutes ago, Consept said:

    Everyone would have to transcend their individual ego and think in at least a world centric way, which is probably 1000 plus years away 

    What's interesting is that a lot of Asian cultures are built on the idea of Universal Harmony and Peace, which is very similar to this. That's why in many Asian countries the culture of extreme individualism never caught. But a moneyless society? Well society as a whole would have to be at the lower tier stage green. 

  25. Posted

    5 hours ago, Insane butterfly said:

    What is the difference between this (WWII)

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    and this? (Jemen)

     

    The first pioneers of evil and genocides in the ancient world were the Jews,  some part's of the old testament have stories for a very strong stomach's, was Hitler more evil than the Jews? 

     

    I would be very careful in saying something like this, this is simply not a fact.