augisltucia

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    I am 19 years old. I keep experiencing dissapointment every time I go out with my friend. We go drink a couple of beers, etc.. Every time I return home I feel very negative, dissapointed with the evening out, because I didn’t talk to some girls. I am capable of doing it, but I feel like I need to be extra stimulated every night out to feel like it was a success. The biggest stimulation I get is from talking to women, feeling desired. I don’t know what to do with this thing. I need some mindset switch help. Any ideas?

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    I broke up with my ex a month ago and I feel much better. But when I get triggered by something, like for example a picture of her or presents she gave me, I instantly feel hurt again. I know that Leo said in his "How to overcome a breakup" video, that crying out everything will help, but I'm not sure whether it actually will. For example, if I cry out by triggering my emotions with pictures of my ex, won't it also make me want to go back to my ex or feel that I need to be with her and that she is the only one for me? I am in this paradox of thinking that crying will help, but at the same time I don't want to feel the need to go back to her. Any tips?

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    36 minutes ago, universe said:

    You miss out a lot of information. Like how old you are, how long you've been together etc.

    From the little you told us I can just say that making fun about others in your relationship can be toxic and not really mature.

    Maybe your ex felt bad for him, or you had the vibe that you had to downplay a friend because you felt threatend.

    me and my ex were 18 and 19 at the time of the breakup. We were in a relationship for over a year and recently she started to communicate with that "friend" more often for the last month of our relationship.

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    15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    You could easily just be making up a fantasy of this causal connection because your mind is filled with Andrew Tate.

    Your mind will make up whatever stories to explain complex life events which are beyond your understanding.

    Do you really know why your girl went for your friend?

    Again, my critique of Tate is not that you cannot manipulate women into having sex with you. You absolutely can, and you will get way more sex if you manipulate women than if you don't. The only problem is that you will have sold your soul to the devil for pussy.

    If you want to sell your soul to the devil for pussy and money, go ahead. While you're at it you can also be a rapist and a bank robber.

    Also, you are not at all taking into account how their relationship will end up. Just because you can sleep with a girl a few times does not mean anything. You are merely seeing the tip of an iceberg.

    Yep, I definitely agree with you. I believe I am going through different stages of grief right now and my mind is trying to make sense of everything that happened. 
     

    Andrew Tate in that sense is quite dangerous to our society. Once you have all these vulnerable men (like me) who are trying to find themselves, some ideas that he portraits are very easily latchable since they are very relatable.

    Thank you for your answer.

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    11 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

    I think that it's not an Andrew Tate problem, but a augisltucia problem (not attack here though).

    It's about your fears and insecurities as a man. If you have a sense of inadequacy regarding your manhood or masculinity, then anything can trigger you and make you feel like you lack X or need more of Y to become attractive to girls.

    And surely, if you haven't developed your masculinity and haven't build any attraction skills then there is still something for you to be learnt in order to improve your results with women.

    But you don't need Andrew Tate for this. Watch Leo's videos on getting laid, watch his A. Tate video, maybe get some course on attraction or at least a book and work on your skills and inner game. You don't need to be rich to get girls, you need to be more social and overcome your fears.

    One more thing: it is possible that your ex got attracted to that guy based on his changed behaviours influenced by A. Tate, but that's still not a good reason to follow Tate, simply because there are better, healthier teachers/theory you can consume.

    It probably would also imply that your ex might have been immature, insecure and poorly developed, because obviously manipulation and sort of primitive, "macho" type of masculinity works best with this type of girl. You don't need her. Develop yourself and go find great girls.

    Thank you, great insights.

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    Me and my ex broke up at the peak of Andrew Tate popularity. It was her best friend that was following and promoting Andrew’s idealogy and me and her used to make fun of him because of that. After a month she broke up with me because she fell in love with this best friend of hers. Since then my mind just switched because I was starting to think that because of the idealogy that he followed that’s why she broke up with me to get in a relationship with him. It seemed that our relationship was doing pretty good and the end of it just strucked me out of nowhere. I have just seen the new video of Leo talking about Andrew Tate, but I can’t seem to move on from the thought that she broke up with me because her best friend followed Tates principles and that’s how he got her. What do you guys think?

  10. Posted

    21 hours ago, augisltucia said:

    My whole purpose of this journal is to make me more committed to actualizing myself every day. With this journal I will keep track of my progress and hopefully one day reread everything I have written here to remember the whole journey.

    My main plan of this journal - changing my mindset to a better one.

    Tomorrow will be day one of my journey

    My to-do list:

    1. Meditating (at least 10 min per day)
    2. Cold shower
    3. Watching one Actualized.org video from the cheat sheet
    4. Staying in touch of my emotions
    5. Reading a book 30 min per day

    Overall, just becoming a better human being and starting to feel like I’m making progress on myself.

    I will share some of my thoughts and experiences in this journal.

    First day:

    Meditating ❌

    Cold Shower ✅

    Watching Actualized.org ✅

    Staying in touch with my emotions ✅

    Reading a book 30 min ✅

    I watched a “Mindfulness Meditation” video by Leo. Learned some interesting things that I didn’t know before. Sadly, I didn’t meditate today, but I am committed and excited about doing it so I will try. I see some change in my perspective on life - it’s getting more positive and I am more excited about the future. Trying to stay as honest as I can with everyone I interact with - it is hard, but I enjoy it since I am more open with everyone. Tomorrow I am going to another city with my girlfriend and her friends. I don’t really enjoy interacting with her friends, but I will keep in touch with my feelings so this way it will help me get through it. Anyway, thank you for reading and I will meet you tomorrow.

  11. Posted

    My whole purpose of this journal is to make me more committed to actualizing myself every day. With this journal I will keep track of my progress and hopefully one day reread everything I have written here to remember the whole journey.

    My main plan of this journal - changing my mindset to a better one.

    Tomorrow will be day one of my journey

    My to-do list:

    1. Meditating (at least 10 min per day)
    2. Cold shower
    3. Watching one Actualized.org video from the cheat sheet
    4. Staying in touch of my emotions
    5. Reading a book 30 min per day

    Overall, just becoming a better human being and starting to feel like I’m making progress on myself.

    I will share some of my thoughts and experiences in this journal.