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  1. Defs a great tool to uncover shadow material in your unconscious to release

    but can be used as a tool for avoidance / distraction


    You will know the difference by embracing the negative emotions that arise and letting them go, rather than smoking bongs and watching netflix


  2. @Loba Yo thanks for the reply

    I'll rephrase to ''elements of their shadow'', not all of it.

    I'm assuming you had a lot of choices of partner - but picked the bad boy over nice guys who did not have that edge.

    My current understanding is they are aware of aggressive, sexual thoughts without repression - whereas other men may feel shame, embarrassment, fear thus making them more attractive.

    What work do you think a bad boy needs to do to drop immaturity and turn into a dominant male / alpha male?


  3. Yo

    What do you guys think of the bad boy?

    What are your personal experiences of it?

    Those who are attracted to it, why? why not?

    What are the limitations of this lifestyle? 

    What is an evolved bad boy? Movie, literary, historical examples (integrated red at stage yellow)

     

    IMO a bad boy is someone who has integrated their shadow before their peers - however may be immature in other aspects of their life.

    The attraction is the dominance for submissive people.


  4. Recently I met someone who I have strong feelings for. 

    How much of love is real? Real in the sense that I feel this way - but after doing personal development / self help I am aware of narcissistic / codependent dynamics and the bullshit I have put myself through previously in similar situations.

     

    This video talks about how love can be low status behavior, being overly subservient, scarcity mindset and obsession on one person.

     

    Personally I would say I have resolved some of my issues regarding relationships. I am capable of getting other people. I do like this person moreso than others. 

    Am I over thinking it and trying to analyze it? Or should I be aware of this


  5. How can love be a real thing? How is god love?

    There is so much misery in the world. We do so many bad things as a species. Life is essentially survival of the fittest.

    Our world is structured in a way to hide these unpleasant truths as much as possible.

    But the truth is, if I am a powerful selfish person I will get what I want.

    If I am weak others will walk over me. Without boundaries it's innate within people to take what they want.


  6. Especially in the realm of dating and attraction

    It's stupid how well being an angry alpha guy works to have sex

    yet that behavior is shunned in spiritual circles

    but it works

     

    My current gripe is that the majority of spiritual advice I receive completely contradicts the results I get in the physical world, and the methods I use to acquire things.

     

    At the moment, being a dick as worked so well for me in so many ways that I don't see the reason for consciousness anymore.


  7. I get positive social feedback for being a dick. The world rewards me for being a devil, yet when I actually try to do the right thing and be conscious my rewards are measly.

     

    What am I missing?

    Is it really the best way to live to be a conscious person? 

    If I was unconscious as fuck and sought only my own happiness, purely selfish motives and desires, it seems like my life would be better.


  8.  

    This line is kind of cringy, but the more I think about my life it makes sense.

    Personally I think I have a strong pain body, demon, whatever you wish to call it and with that comes a lot of energy.

    When I use it I take a lot of action and am more focused.

    It's hard to control without consciousness though, and have had incidents where I behave like an animal haha.

     

    Reminds me of Jesus - ''Be in the world, not of it''

    The world is my ego life / mind / reptilian brain - the not of it is the awareness beyond,


  9. Light side code

    There is no emotion, there is peace.

    There is no ignorance, there is knowledge.

    There is no passion, there is serenity.

    There is no chaos, there is harmony.

    There is no death, there is the Force.[9]

     

    Dark Side Code

    Peace is a lie. There is only Passion.
    Through Passion, I gain Strength.
    Through Strength, I gain Power.
    Through Power, I gain Victory.
    Through Victory my chains are Broken.
    The Force shall free me

     

    why is one right and the other wrong?


  10. What did buddha do all day?

    If he removes all desires, what action does he take?
     

    He differs from Christ because his teaching is ''I can of my own self do nothing, the father within doeth the works''

    ''See the lillies of the field, they neither spin nor toil''

     

    Jesus teaches surrender and channeling the holy spirit, whereas to my knowledge buddha's emphasis on mediation and dissolution of ego doesn't have a parallel to the above quotes. 


  11. On Not Loving the World

    ''15 Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father. is not in them. 16 For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17 The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.''

     

    What are you interpretations of this quote?

    How could it be misinterpreted?

     

    My understanding is the world is ego, a projection. Vanity, wanting to be special. If you love these things more than consciousness (the father), you are taking the wide gate that leads to destruction. Aka an egocentric existence.