Tefikos

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    The suicide rates of trans people, should tell enough, how horrible they feel in our society currently. Yes there are some problems,  for example with sports and women's bathrooms, but the focus should still be in acceptance and how we can make them feel better. We don't need to give More rights to one group of people that other have, but we still can make them feel .ore understood and accepted.

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    Yes, it might not be a good idea to make every structure there is, in the world equal for everyone. But The focus should be in the feeling, that most trans folks feel.

    Why do they feel the way they feel and how we as a society could make it better for them? Not everyone need to feel the need to do so, but small group of people can make a huge difference how safe, seen and valued they feel inside.

    This is a problem for them and it should be taken seriously.

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    Have you tried therapy? It might be really useful at the same time as you are learning to more social with others.

    My social problems we're linked to poor mental health and relational skills that had roots in my childhood, and working with my mind at the same time I socialized was the key for The development of that relational part of my brain. Without working with my mind my relational skills improved poorly, but until I worked with my mind they started to improved when I kept socializing.

    This is working for me, but might not be the solution for everyone, (therapy still is useful for everyone:D).

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    Society is way too masculine even here in Finland, women in power are critizised much more harsly than males from similar things and I don't believe that masculinity will go anywhere, no matter how feminised the world gets, it just gets healthier. Masculine power is still based too heavily on patriarchal ideology, of course people will feel weak when their external source of power is taken away, until the real maaculity emerges that is based on inner strenght, rather than ideology.

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    How do I feel right now?

    Afraid of death, I literally am terrorised by the imagination of death. I smoked dmt a week ago and go a great awakening, but after the trip, this fear of death arose. Days I have been feeling really bad, because of this fear. It is really physical feeling that hurts so bad. My capasity to handle these things has incrased and I am somehow able to manage this feeling without totally relapsing to addictions, but it is difficult at times. Of course soon this will pass and I will again feel better, but at the moment it is hard to believe, like always in the middle of difficult feelings. 

    My life has progressed and I am becoming every day the healthier version of myself and I feel good about it, but at the same time I feel sad, because of the change that has happened. I feel sad, because had to give up a lot of things and behaviours that didn't serve me any longer. The attachment bond I had for those things makes the separation a really painful process, even though I know that they beginned to just limit and hurt me.

    In the end the change is always positive and day by day I feel better and am more whole as a person. May the future be bright.

    Every day in every way it's getting better and better.

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    1 hour ago, Arthogaan said:

    I scrolled through last day with and put "Leo Gura"/"actualized" in ctrl +f and there was nothing. Maybe they deleted it :ph34r:

    Curt answered to one comment, that he doesn't delete any comments, it is youtube that categorizes some comments as spam and removes them. He can't even see them or uncheck them as spam. 

    I couldn't find the comment either.

     

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    1 hour ago, something_else said:

    This is basically admitting you don't know that many women in real life, and that most of your ideas about women in the modern world are from the internet

    The problem is that often the very guys who this would apply to are so desperate for sex and female love that they struggle to see women as friends in a non-sexual way. Being able to hold a friendship with a woman as a guy often first requires that your own sexual needs are met. It ends up being a bit of a catch 22.

     

    If that was the case, then I could not hold a non-sexual friendship with anyone, if my sexual needs aren't met, because all I want is sex from everyone I hang out with.

     

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    6 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

    @StarStruck I can get a girl and customers with out. But, I personally don't like my baldy bald bald.

    I will get less girls and less customers because I am bald. Thats just how it works apparently.

    Have you thought that it is just your belief that you will get less if you're bald, that makes you behave in less confident manner and that is why you end up getting less?

    Leo is bald and still he gets the girls and people follows his work.

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    Oh god how difficult period it was in my life when I realized that I was balding. Many years of fighting against it, until few mushroom trips encouraged me to shave it off. It really felt like I wouldn't be attractive anymore when I'm bald and then I would be alone the rest of my life. Like my worth as a guy would be zero after it. It feels funny and sad to think about it now, when I have accepted and embraced my baldness.

    It's just sad how anxious guys get when they are balding, because in the end, it isn't that bad.