Yali

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  1. Do each of us share a part of the imagined physical reality
    Do each of us share a part of the imagined physical reality
    Or each one of us is completely alone in his own imagination?
    In other words: the chair I see, is that a part of my imagination as God, and you are also experiencing it, or , that chair only and only exists in my POV?

  2. Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    @Karmadhi Self-actualizing requires taking action and doing difficult things.
    If not for that, everyone would be self-actualized.
    If you want to live a great life, the basic cost is labor.

  3. Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    In practice the only thing you need to be successful with women is to go out and approach.
    The rest is niggly details.

  4. How to message on tinder?
    How to message on tinder?
    Do not be sexual.
    If the girl truly likes you, you don't need to game her much. The problem is they don't really like you to begin with, otherwise they would be receptive to a simple "Hey there".
    Keep in mind there is a lot of fake profiles and girls just looking for validation and ego-boosts on apps like Tinder.
    Girls are not above using guys purely for validation with no intention of fucking them.
    Your best opener is gonna be a short unique funny line.

  5. Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    Counter-intuitively yes. Lot of pickup actually teaches you how to be more expressive like a girl. To flow more with your feelings. Most guys are so stuck in their heads they are disconnected from their feelings. Feelings are not just feminine, they are also masculine.
    You will attract way more girls by being emotionally expressive than you will by being stoic.
    It's similar to how you talk to children or dogs. You adopt an over-emotionalized, playful attitude. You don't treat the interaction seriously. Likewise when attracting women. Treat women like children when trying to flirt with them.
    Watch videos of men flirting with women.

  6. American Fascism
    American Fascism
    If Beck is stage Blue, then SD tells you exactly why he would support Trump.
    There is even a Yellow reason. If Beck is Yellow, he might feel that Trump is needed to shore up the Blue/Orange part of the Spiral.
    But the problem is that Trump is Red, not Orange. Beck seems to have mistaken Trump for Orange. This a very dangerous miscalculation.

  7. Who Should Make Most Money in Society?
    Who Should Make Most Money in Society?
    Don't get me wrong, you can certainly make enormous money by stealing and leeching. But don't be shocked when you try to leech but you get leeched instead.
    By being a leech you enter a battle of leech against leech and who gets outleeched is up for grabs.
    See, leeching is a finite process whereas creativity is an infinite process. You'd be a fool to align yourself with the finite instead of the infinite.

  8. Ben Shapiro Propaganda Movies Are Here!
    Ben Shapiro Propaganda Movies Are Here!
    Academic performance and social credentials are not equal to true intelligence or consciousness.
    Many smart people are ideological and stupid. Like Richard Dawkins. A very smart idiot.

  9. Spiral Dynamics Stage Green Examples Mega-Thread
    Spiral Dynamics Stage Green Examples Mega-Thread
    Your answer, @Yali, of systemic racism is in the time-stamped debate video (till 1:34:20) of Vaush debating an African American Proud Boy.
     

  10. Ken Wilber — “an enlightened nazi”
    Ken Wilber — “an enlightened nazi”
    Just to fuck with your mind's a bit more: David Hawkins sung the praises of Ben Shapiro and Shapiro's worldview while denouncing post-modernism.
    David Hawkins was a very conscious guy, spiritually speaking. But politically he was a fool. Having good politics is a separate matter from spiritual development. Politics requires years of careful study. You will not get good politics just from spiritual practice.
    And remember, most spiritual masters got their awakening through giftedness and super-natural talent. But you don't get good politics through talent or giftness. Good politics requires serious study and contemplation.

  11. A recontextualization of Desire
    A recontextualization of Desire
    Sheila (Osho's #2) openly talked about how she would gather up groupies for Osho to bang.

  12. Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    @Lyubov Yeah, but girls do love themselves a proper asshole. Because it is a dominant quality.
    An asshole will protect her children from getting raped. But at the cost of him raping others.

  13. Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    Teal Swan: Why Women Like Assholes + Why Women Aren't Attracted to Nice Guys
    I had a girl friend once who was a model, and it made me appreciate some of why women behave the way they do.  Random guys would actually follow her home when she was driving in a car.  Beauty attracts some of the worst characters or can bring out the worst in men.  All kinds of volatile emotions and desires are being triggered.  That’s why women feel vulnerable and the need for a man that can protect them and provide a home.   My advice to men is to just be yourself, relax, and treat a woman like another human being.    That alone will make you look self confident and strong.  

  14. Biden Low State of Awareness?
    Biden Low State of Awareness?
    @Skenderberg Yes, looks very odd and awkward, and unprofessional. Men in high power get away with shit like that. Hope he's not one of the pedos.

  15. Who Were The MAGA Rioters?
    Who Were The MAGA Rioters?
    Don't gaslight us with your BS.
    Rural Americans don't want any empathy from "coastal elites" who they themselves have demonized for the last 30 years.
    The tragedy of the situation is that Dems and progressives actually want to help rural Americans but the rural Americans are too ignorant to accept help and bite the hand that feeds them.
    It's not our job to endlessly bend over backwards for aggressively ignorant people.

  16. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Sure it is. My first two wingmen were two black guys in Dallas. Both of them got laid more than me because they were more experienced and had better game.
    Will you have a disadvantage with white girls? Sure, probably. But it doesn't really matter when you talk to 30 girls a night. You don't need to bang every girl you meet. You only need 1 per night to be down.
    If you're a black guy and you want a hot white girlfriend, this isn't a problem because all you gotta do is filter through 500 hot white girls until you find a few that love you. Is it worth it? Sure it is. You can do that in a few months.
    Remember.... you're not out to bang the whole female race. You're just looking for a handful of women. A handful out of thousands. This makes your goal much easier.
    When I was practicing game, it's even worth it to approach 300 pound whales. You are just being social and having fun. Lower your standards for socialization and approach. Just because you approach does not mean you need to end up having sex with her. She might have a cute friend.
    APPROACH ALL! -- should be your motto. Young, old, hot, fat, man, woman, gay, straight -- doesn't matter. Just approach and socialize. Sort the wheat from the chaff later.

  17. Christian theologian on Eckhart Tolle
    Christian theologian on Eckhart Tolle
    @Yali They "believe" in Jesus.  But Jesus was just a guy who discovered he wasn't just a guy but he was God.  
    And then the rest worshiped him when they could also have discovered they were God.  

  18. Leo's thoughts on iPEC's 7 Levels of Energy?
    Leo's thoughts on iPEC's 7 Levels of Energy?
    Yeah, well, that's how all creativity works. You consume sources and then "the universe" gives you some spin on that.
    I don't remember it too well. I haven't used it much.
    The biggest problem, like with any model, is taking it too literally and using it as your exclusive paradigm for understanding reality.
    Be sure to balance it out with other models like SD, Cook-Greuter, Wilber, etc. And in the end, drop all models.

  19. Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter
    Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter
    I was 110% committed to fixing this area of my life. So failure and quitting was not even an option.
    It only took a few months. Nothing in the grand scheme of things. And it was an exciting journey. Some of my fondest memories today are my early days of game.

  20. Can I use contemplation to gain clarity around why I always end up being rejected?
    Can I use contemplation to gain clarity around why I always end up being rejected?
    @Hardkill Lost my virginity at 18. Have slept with between 30-50 women. I feel comfortable around women when I'm dating them, and I have no problem seducing them. It's keeping them attracted that's the issue for me. Again, within 1-8 weeks I've lost them. 
     
    I've had one girlfriend. We dated for 2 years: 18-20. It was highly dysfunctional and co-dependent. We were both painfully insecure.
     
    I've come a long way since then, let me tell you!

  21. The Great Reset
    The Great Reset
    There is no conspiracy here. The world's top business leaders and politicians will of course collaborate on issues they see facing the future. And of course they will do so from a self-biased perspective to increase the survival of themselves, their friends, their company, and their nation.
    This is not anything new. This is how human civilization has been developing for the last 10,000 years.
    To be worried or outraged by things like this is silly.

  22. Depression from mid path enlightenment
    Depression from mid path enlightenment
    Why do you need someone to get you? As long as you get yourself, bask joyfully in that.
    It's not like anybody gets me. Let others be blissfully ignorant. Focus on raising your own consciousness and bliss. Cultivate inner bliss so you feel good without anyone.
    Developing a life purpose will also resolve the depression and suicidal thoughts. Besides awakening you need something productive to do with your life. You need to find a creative outlet.
    Design the kind of life you would enjoy living. Don't sit around twiddling your thumbs. At your age you've got enormous potential, you can basically become anyone you want.

  23. Sam Harris more enlightened than Jim Newman
    Sam Harris more enlightened than Jim Newman
    Doing mushrooms is pointless if one isn't willing to contemplate and question everything. Like a Christian he will just interpret the mushroom experience along his existing paradigmatic biases.
    Like I said, he's paradigm locked. It's that simple. Can he eacape it? Yes. Will he? I doubt it. He is not interested in that.

  24. Sam Harris more enlightened than Jim Newman
    Sam Harris more enlightened than Jim Newman
    All you gotta do is ask Sam, "What is God?" or "What is Truth?" or "What is love?" and watch him flail like a drowning child.

  25. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    It's not per se that extroversion is more attractive. Extroverts simply get more logistical opportunities for sex.
    The #1 key for sex to happen is logistical opportunity and bumping into new people. Introverts bump into far fewer new people than extroverts. So o course they will have less sexual opportunities. It's just basic logistics. You can't get laid sitting at home reading books. To get laid a lot you need to go to parties and social events. Which introverts don't enjoy going to.
    You act as though I said introverts can't get laid. That's not what I said. I simply said they get laid less.
    The reality is that you don't need to get laid a lot with many people to have children and reproduce.
    Also, introverts can be very good at getting laid through other means. For example, many introverts become successful businessmen who then just buy as much sex as they want.
    For example, I could leverage my introversion to buy a lot of sex if I wanted to. Remember, for most of human history sex was traded and acquired through wealth and power, not pickup at nightclubs or Tinder.
    The ultimate way to get laid is through power. Consider Genghis Khan.
    I am not conflating those two.
    Doesn't matter. That kind of polarization only increases your results with girls. A highly polarizing obnoxious ass like Trump will be hated by 33% of girls, but about 33% will love him. Girls who hate him will really hate him. Girls who love him will really love him. At least at first, before they learn how much of toxic devil he is. Eventually 100% of girls will hate him
    That's nice in theory but doesn't work in practice. You need to be social to get laid a lot.
    Of course you can still get laid being quiet. You'll get just laid less relative to someone who's more active.