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  1. Are psychedelics ULTIMATELY a distraction?
    Are psychedelics ULTIMATELY a distraction?
    Well, this will vary from person to person.
    For me, personally, psychedelics have not increased my baseline state much at all. But they have helped me understand reality at staggering levels of depth that no guru or video or book ever could. I used psychedelics to solve the ultimate riddle of existence. I became completely omniscient. The entire universe makes sense to me now.

  2. Is it common for people to take out a loan to put towards their investments?
    Is it common for people to take out a loan to put towards their investments?
    This is a horrible idea.
    You will lose that money and then you'll be double fucked.
    There is no investment that can reliably return 17-22%!
    The best you can expect from Wall Street is 10-15%. And then you gotta pay tax on top of that and there is inflation.
    If anyone is promising you a 20%+ ROI they are scamming you. That kind of ROI can only come from being personally involved in running a business. And even then most businesses fail.
    The best money managers in the world only aim for like 20% ROI. Aiming for anything higher will end up backfiring and losing you money. There's no free lunch. Stop expecting to leech value.
    Even if you could get a loan at 5%, I still wouldn't do that to invest in Wall Street. A credit card loan is an automatic loser. Only idiots take out credit card loans.

  3. Spiral Dynamics and Relationships
    Spiral Dynamics and Relationships
    An intimate honest relationship, lol.
    Consider what it would be like to be in an intimate relationship with a woman with no sex involved.
    Remove sex from the equation for just a minute.

  4. Ken Wilber — “an enlightened nazi”
    Ken Wilber — “an enlightened nazi”
    Here's some more fuel for the fire:
    In one video James Swartz (enlightened guy) talked about how if he saw a rat in his hotel room he would not hesitate to stomp it dead with his shoe.
    In 500 years, if spiritual people hear that statement they will wonder: how could this enlightened teacher be such a monster and not have a sense of animal rights?
    Hell, some stage Green unenlightened people have a higher sense of animal rights and compassion today than the enlightened James Swartz.
    And now, what is the fundamental difference between a Nazi killing humans he finds disgusting vs an enlightened master killing a rat he finds disgusting?
    If you kill a rat does that mean you aren't enlightened? How about a fly? How about a spider? How about a chicken? How about a tree? How about a human? Where does it stop? How big of a thing must you kill for the universe to revoke your enlightenment?

  5. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    That's basically how game works.
    You can effectively boost yourself from a 5 to a 9, batting way above your league.
    The great thing about being a man is that you can go from a 5 to a solid 10 if you really want. A woman cannot do that. Which is why women don't game. If game worked for women, they would do it. Which is why all women wear makeup. Makeup is the original photoshop.
    Online game should not even be called "game". It's not game. It's just lazy posting of photos of yourself.

  6. 5-MeO-DMT Freebase to HCL
    5-MeO-DMT Freebase to HCL
    HCl, Fumarate, Oxalate -- these are all salts. They are practically interchangeable. Does not affect the trip.
    You can plug Freebase as well. All of them plug pretty much the same. Freebase will be about 10-20% more potent than salt. Freebase dissolves poorly in water, requiring use of vinegar or something like light coconut milk.

  7. What does Depression mean?
    What does Depression mean?
    Loss of hope

  8. The usually intense video reactions of 5-meo-dmt. Why they happen?
    The usually intense video reactions of 5-meo-dmt. Why they happen?
    Because most people are children. They treat it like some sort of rollcoaster ride.

  9. RSD Madison, thoughts?
    RSD Madison, thoughts?
    Bootcamps are mostly for people who struggle just doing an approach at all. The bootcamp simply forces you to approach a lot. It doesn't offer much value beyond that.
    There is no magic advice or lesson which you can be told which will make you good at approaching. The only way to get good is to do it a lot and fail a lot.

  10. How can we trust a psychedelic experience?
    How can we trust a psychedelic experience?
    Food is imaginary too. Yet you still need to eat it to live your imaginary life.
    A dream is a dream is a dream. You are dreaming that psychedelics can awaken you. And so it is! Since you are God, your imagination rules the show.
    I have never said psychedelics are the only way. I have shared with you dozens of various ways.
    But practically speaking they would help you a lot with getting your head unstuck from your ass
    This has nothing to do with me.
    Stop creating excuses and distractions. You are not conscious of what Truth is. I am helping you to see that.

  11. how is possible that i am still single?
    how is possible that i am still single?
    Not true at all.
    When I started, my standards were so high it was impossible to get laid. A big part of game for me was learning to lower my standards beyond what I was comfortable with.
    If your standards are too high you will basically never get laid.
    I would rather not have sex at all then have sex with most girls.
    1) Stop comparing yourself to others. You are unique and no one has your unique combinations of strengths and weaknesses.
    2) Take extreme ownership of your situation. It makes no difference how easy others have it. You are not them. You are you.
    3) Stop asking for life to be easy. Embrace whatever challenge is thrown your way.
    4) Fall in love with who you are. Stop wanting to be anyone else but you.
    That guy who gets laid easily... he might get cancer or herpes tomorrow. So stop envying him.

  12. Dissappointed so far (Summary of 4 years of spiritual search?
    Dissappointed so far (Summary of 4 years of spiritual search?
    That number only proves my point.
    If he was serious he would have 200 posts tops.

  13. Low points with the pursuit of a life purpose
    Low points with the pursuit of a life purpose
    That's why no one succeeds without perseverance.
    There is no shortcut here. Either you will persevere or you will quit. If you quit you will never become successful.
    Success is rare because most people are too weak, so they quit.
    Success is for the strong.
    Just like with marriage, you must commit 100%. Make quitting not even an option.

  14. Social Dynamics as Life Purpose?
    Social Dynamics as Life Purpose?
    @Onecirrus Great work dude!
    There are millions of Incels who you could help break out of their toxic mental hellscapes to become well-integrated healthy men.
    The niche is ripe for conscious leadership.

  15. Are all employees wage slaves?
    Are all employees wage slaves?
    The relevant question is not whether you work for a wage but whether you love the work you do.
    If you work for a wage but you love the work you do, yes, technically you are still a wage slave, but since you love the work, it doesn't matter.
    You can certainly find great wage jobs. Plenty of people have wage jobs and are happy with it.
    Also, some high level wage jobs can come with lots of perks and freedoms. Don't be afraid to look for nicer jobs. You can always leave to start your own biz if you are unhappy there.

  16. Low sexuality towards women, am I gay?
    Low sexuality towards women, am I gay?
    Def either gay or asexual. Perhaps your hormones are out of whack.
    If you were full on straight you couldn't go more than a few days without dreaming about pussy. It would drive you nuts.
    If I were you I would definitely get my hormones checked. Check your testosterone levels and others. Check your vitamin D.
    You may simply be repressing your desire for dick because you feel it is wrong or abnormal.

  17. The Psychology of the Blackpill and it's destructive effects
    The Psychology of the Blackpill and it's destructive effects
    During the last months (boredom from quarantine hehe) i have dived deep into the black pill. I am not popular with girls and was drawn a bit into it but soon realized how toxic and destructive it is. After talking with dozens of Incels and seeing a lot of the Youtubers that make blackpill material. I honestly would like your guys ideas on why this happens. What struck me the most is the fact that they always use "it is proved by science, there is data behind it" argument whenever i criticized the blackpill. Why is this happening today? There have been people that do not socialize a lot for a long time, this ideology is quite recent.
    They often say Tinder and online dating is a big factor and i do agree. Being unattractive is a HUGE downside if you base your results on online dating since it is 90 percent based on your looks. However, you can still go out and meet girls in person. It does not seem as the ultimate reason why a guy would be dateless for decades. 
    Another thing i have heard from some Incels is that they claim to have approached hundreds of girls without any results. One person said 100 and another over 1000, all rejections. I find that very difficult to believe since before even autistic people managed to find a partner or people with disabilities. Heck, John Nash had fucking schizophrenia and still managed to find a wife. Have girl standards gone up? Have men become weaker? Has online dating and the spread of technology made dating more based on appearance since online dating is mostly look focused?
    Now i know you people would probably say stuff like "they are scared of changing and working on themselves so they complain", i fully get that. But some guys being like (socially awkward, hermits etc)  this has always been the case. Even in the early 2000 s for example . Why the blackpill has happened in the last 5 years or so?
    Leo it would be amazing if you could make a video about this issue like you did for conspiracy theories. Looking at this forum can clearly show you how much of an issue this is becoming and would be good if it got some high conscious addressing. "the hidden psychology behind the blackpill/inceldom would be a good title hehe".
    Disclaimer: I do not agree with the blackpill and it's core beliefes. I am just reporting what i have seen from a small research i did.
     

  18. This Is Why Men Have Less SΕX Than Women
    This Is Why Men Have Less SΕX Than Women
    To be more helpful to you, women generally have less problems with being incels simply because women are more social creatures. These days it's all too easy for a man to lock himself in his mancave and spend most of his time online or playing video games. You just can't get laid that way. If you invested as much time into being social as you did into playing video games or hanging around online, you'd get laid way more.
    The #1 biggest thing you can do to increase your sex is to be social.
    It's that simple. But it requires you make structural changes to your way of life. Which of course no one wants to do.
    Try it. Make a goal to talk to 10 new people every day for 90 days. You'll be amazed at the opportunities that come your way. Not just sex but jobs, ideas, friendships, etc. Being social takes effort for many people, especially guys and introverts.
    If you're an introverted guy who spends all his time online, you will basically never get laid. So change that.

  19. UPDATE on my (finally) intellectual date. Further steps? Fiery connection?
    UPDATE on my (finally) intellectual date. Further steps? Fiery connection?
    He sounds like a nerdy, clueless, nice-guy with zero game and little experience. Intellectual guys can be like that.
    Keep texting with him and dropping some flirty / sexy signs. He should bite at some point.
    Don't be afraid to get flirtatious with him. Subtly plant in his mind that you want his dick, but then pull back a bit and play it coy so he pursues you.
    Dangle the bait. Then make him work for it a bit.

  20. Night out report
    Night out report
    The upside of rolling solo is that you grow very fast, as long as you're able to do approaches. If you're going out solo and you're so scared that you don't even approach, then you're not ready for that yet. You need a wingman/friend.
    @Brenzo2 You mean you're in a relationship but you want to build your pickup skills at the same time? That's hard. In practice, once you get in a comfortable relationship your pickup skills will suffer. There's a trade-off.
    @Joel3102 Yes, it certainly is, but it's going to take much more work than you imagine at the outset. But the upside is that it will also be much more rewarding (in terms of growth) than you imagine. To really get good at pickup you need to hit it hardcore for a couple of years, approaching 5000+ people. You need to take it very seriously. A half-assed attitude will not work here. You basically need to rewire and retrain much of your mind. Attraction is extremely counter-intuitive. It will shock you. You'll be in for some rude awakening. It will be emotionally difficult. But it will grow you like crazy. If you do it, don't do it for the sex, do it for the stronger man it makes you. It can also be very fun and exciting compared to sitting at home and playing Fortnite. Doing pickup hardcore makes you feel ALIVE! It makes you feel like a hero on his journey towards manhood.
    I highly recommend handling this part of your life. Just don't be a douche, don't hurt women, and don't develop an ideology or identity around it.
    If you want to get serious about learning this skill set, you must bite the bullet and move to a large city with great nightlife and lots of hot girls. LA, NYC, Chicago, Miami, Austin, Vegas, London, etc. It's very worth it. Don't be trying to learn pickup in some redneck part of the world. You need volume to practice on. If you're not willing to relocate, you're not very serious about it.
    But at the same time, don't make excuses if you can't relocate immediately. Begin wherever you're at and make plan to upgrade your situation.
    Pickup is not just about attracting girls. Pickup is about upgrading your entire lifestyle. It's about better nutrition, better fitness, better apartment, better decor, better cloths, better haircut, better friends, better car, better everything. Transform yourself into an attractive fucking man with an awesome life such that a woman would be itching to be around you. Shed your old childish ways. Become awesome. When you become a truly awesome, valuable man, guys and girls will flock to be around you. This is not some gimmick. You are actually becoming awesome. It's a total makeover.
    But also don't get lost in it. Return to spirituality once you've completed that phase of your life.
    P.S. There are always limits to everything a human does. Don't let that stop you from being awesome. You don't need to sleep with 100 girls. You don't need to become the Michael Jordan of pickup. You just need to become decent and score a few girlfriends. Which basically any guy can do.

  21. Night out report
    Night out report
    @MM1988 What bad experiences? A girl rejecting you is not a bad experience. Did a girl stab you with a knife? Then I might understand you'd be hesitant.
    You are just being weak and playing victim.
    You need to take massive action to solve this problem. This requires going out over and over again hundreds of times. Try to enjoy it. Some night you will cry. It's difficult but also rewarding.
    It helps to find some friends and wings to roll with. Solo is doable but pretty hard for a newbie. You REALLY have to push yourself when you're solo.
    The problem with kids these days is that they have no sense of work ethic. They don't know how to discipline themselves to achieve a big result. You expect everything to be handed to you, otherwise you think it's impossible. Like if I took you by the hand, sat you in the car, drove you to the bar, put you into a good mood, and pushed you to approach girl after girl after girl, and told all your sticking points and all the right ways to deal with girls, you'd have success. But you're not motivated enough to do all that by yourself, to figure it out by yourself.
    You have to learn to lead yourself and to be a creative problem-solver. All the resources you could possibly want for learning how to approach and date hot girls is available online. Much of it is free or very affordable to purchase. But see, you're not making use of it. You're not even appreciating that 20 years ago none of this information was available. It was basically unheard of and impossible 20 years ago. But today it's all free knowledge. And yet still you don't put it to use. 20 years ago you would have paid a million dollars for this knowledge.

  22. Night out report
    Night out report
    After watching just the pathetic bad attitude of many on this forum about girls, i decided to go out and approach as many girls as possible to see what they are like. This is something which i never do, so relax a bit because this is going to be fun for you, lol. The rules before i went out:
    - no drinking;
    - approaching alone, no wingman;
    - try to spend as much time as possible with strangers;
    - no pickup lines, authentic conversations.
    When i was in the bar, the most difficult thing to do when looking back was the first approach. I just went to do it annyway, which quite surprised me. The conversation was pretty sollid and she laughed a lot, but she had a boyfriend. The following 5 approaches where just like this, everybody had a boyfriend, lol. What also was verry funny to me was when i did the approaches, almost always, the girlfriends of the girl i approach in that instant grap there phone. The girls i approached thus far, where all nice and enjoyed my company. But i wanted to go to another bar to change things. 
    The following two approaches in the line-up before the entrance i can just say where the most awkward social experiences i ever had. I asked a girl if she was enjoing her night, she looked me straight into the eyes and then turned away her body. I just didnt experience for her anymore. I was just dumpstruck. The girlfriend of the girl then turned arround and said that i was to nice and must be a fucking dickhead in order to be more attractive. The guys in the line-up just laughed me out, but i didnt give a damn fuck. Went in the bar and approached 2-3 girls, 2 of them where blowouts. The third was a pretty sollid approach but she had a lot of social value so after a while she just ignored me because there where also other guys. What i also found funny was the effect my approaches had on other guys. When you see me rocking it there are no excuses left i gues.
    Then i switched bars again and approached 4-5 girls, 2 of them went pretty good and there was physical contact. But one of the girls i approached was 15, so then i stoped. But the other girl liked me untill i said that i went out alone, lol. From that point on the conversation went downhills and the stoped touching me. 
    This was my night out, much learned here. In conclusion i can say that my objective was met, but i suck shit in flirting. Like really. If i didnt do a lot of spiritual practices i would have been depressed now because there is much work to do. But im happy i did it annyway, and i will go out at least 1 time a weak to practise this. 
    You will here from me in the future, more epic rapports comming?.

  23. How much do looks matter
    How much do looks matter
    Sorry. I stand corrected. I was not thinking of it as a percent.
    0.2% is more realistic for a newbie. Although I knew a newbie in Vegas who slept with 25 girls in like 3 months. So it very much matters your geography and also how quickly you learn.
    The biggest problem will be that you will attract a LOT of hot girls, but you will be unable to close them for stupid logistical reasons.
    The most important element for getting a high lay count in pickup is becoming an absolute master of handling the logistics. You will lose 90% of girls due to logistics. Which means, 90% of girls who are ready to fuck you, you will lose. At least as a newbie. As a vet you will get good at handling all the bullshit obstacles.

  24. "My Descent into the Alt-Right Pipeline" Good video on internet radicalisation.
    "My Descent into the Alt-Right Pipeline" Good video on internet radicalisation.
    If blacks in America received $30 trillion dollars in reparations for slavery (which is just one estimate of the damage done during slavery), the IQ gap would disappear. That's my empirical claim. It could be tested. But of course the whole point is that no one wants to test it. The whole point of the IQ race debate is to deny that blacks are economically abused. The ego wants to blame it on their "inferior genetics", rap music, drugs, sex, black culture, laziness, etc.
    The economic unfairness is deliberately overlooked. Because it's too true to admit! It's too much responsibility. What white ego wants to admit that blacks in America incurred $30 trillion dollars worth of abuse? It's too outrageous to admit.
    The amazing thing is that blacks have as high an IQ as they do, given the amount of abuse they incurred. A 10 point IQ difference is very small given the historical context and their economic situation.
    Hell, one easy way to remove the black IQ gap is to simply change the way we fund public schools. Make all our public schools evenly funded rather than basing the funding off local real estate taxes. This would equalize funding for school in regions with low real estate values. This one change alone could equalize the IQ gap. But no one wants to implement it because it means whites will lose their best schools.
    See, blaming genetics is very convenient because then it means we don't have to make any tough policy changes. The ego abuses a victim out of selfishness, then it blame the victim's genetics. This way the ego can feel righteous and superior while it keeps behaving like the selfish devil that it is. The whole purpose of the ego is to prevent honest self-reflection. The devil cannot look himself in the mirror, so he covers up all the mirrors.

  25. The inherit neediness in day game
    The inherit neediness in day game
    @Esilda I love that you brought this up because this is typical of how most women think about game. Notice the tacit virtue-signaling and disgust you have for game. I am not judging you because this is how 90% of women think about the concept of "game". 
    What you don't understand is this:
    If you get approached on the streets by a strong, confident, charming good-looking guy you will go home and tell your girlfriends enthusiastically that this very cute boy approached you and you will probably note that he was tall, dark whatever. (even though it was a more unconscious primal or spiritual-energetic aspect that ultimately won you over). 

    Now if you get approached by a dark soul loner with poor social calibration your face will shrivel up in disgust and you'll go home and tell your friends that a maniac approached you. You will then reiterate the importance of #metoo and feminism. 
    Strong guy = massive survival value for you therefore everything he does "I accept and think is cute". You will yield massively to him.
    Dark soul nerdy guy = "Ewwwwwwww. Please get him away from me."  
    Of course, these are two extreme examples. But ultimately your biggest problem with game is that it is a seemingly love devoid statistical endeavor and that a "creep" can grow into a stud that you are attracted to. 
    As a guy, I think the best thing that "game" teaches me is how to act whenever I meet a girl that is just my type or we are in love. When there is a match like this girls assume everything will be smooth and effortless. But you have no idea how easily an inexperienced guy can ruin a match made in heaven. 
    I personally was so inexperienced and insecure that when an absolute tenner fell in love with me there was nothing I could do. I actually broke her heart with my inexperience and insecurity.