Don't take anything seriously, EVEN ENLIGHTENMENT

 






 






 



 
There is NOTHING to learn, you don't need time to be what you already are, just sit still
DONT'T SEEK FOR IT ...

@NightHawkBuzz No, you build a portfolio now, before you get a position.
Do small personal projects to add to your portfolio.
Do not wait for an employer to do it for you.
Spend a year building personal projects, just for your portfolio. This will be better than any degree.

Looks. Barely at all.
By the diverse range of opinions you are getting, you can tell we've all had a lot of different life experiences, with a lot of different cultures. I learned this in my early 20's, when we all used to immaturely look at an ugly guy and wonder how he got that stunning girl.
Eventually, I stopped wondering. Looks mean almost nothing.

If you just want to get laid, approach a lot of women.
If you want a girl you can connect with, go do what you love, and while doing it come across a kindred spirit. Then don't screw it up  its not easy to find.
The third option is to wait for attraction to hit you while you are with someone. Then it's hit-and-miss but can be intense, or just nuts, or both. For this, you need to meet women, be around them, and talk to them socially.
 

@Princess Arabia That is wrong. A nice muscular frame looks more attractive than a thin spindly frame on a man. And women certainly notice it intuitively and subconsciously. Will that alone get you laid? Probably not, but it will grease the wheels.

@Hatfort It's more complex than that because pregnancies have all kinds of complications past 4 months.
In practice, though I agree that we can set some reasonable cut-off point for normal healthy pregnancies. Perhaps at 4 months. And longer if doc sees there are complications.
I think this would be a good political compromise. But the hardcore right-wing will not accept such a compromise because they got it in their mind that all abortion is murder and they use compromise to keep pushing that timeline lower and lower and lower because they want it at zero and with no exceptions for rape, incest, or complications.
But about 75% of the US would agree to such a compromise. The ban abortion crowd is a small but vocal minority.

Notice how this issue involves a struggle to draw a boundary/duality between: alive vs not-alive, conscious vs not-conscious, autonomous vs not-autonomous, part of the mother vs not part of the mother, fully human vs biomass, human vs fly, right vs wrong, moral vs immoral, etc.
The mind wants to ground reality in such boundaries, but all such boundaries are untenable because reality is ONE. Which is why you struggle and struggle to draw those boundaries but will always fail. And why people disagree so much about where the boundaries lie.
There is no point at which a baby is conscious or alive or autonomous or human. There is no point at which a baby is separate from a pine tree. Getting that takes you meta. Learning this lesson is one of the most important things Actualized.org has to teach you. Stop falling into the trap of objectifying dualistic distinctions. If you manage to do that, your mind will be set radically free and peace can come to the world.
Or, continue fighting over imagined dualities.

Risk of pregnancy is very real.
Best solution is to get vasectomy. You can store some sperm on ice in a bank just in case.

Not for oral sex. Put it on when you're ready to stick it in her pussy.
I would avoid oral sex on a ONS. Although it really depends on the quality of the girl. If she's high quality then it's acceptable.

In a ONS situation her pussy is probably not very clean.
Classy girls who take good care of their bodies and/or after multiple dates. If she's dating you she will be cleaning her pussy for you.

Muscles and height are relevant. But there are bigger factors which you should be focused on.
The point of all this talk is to not get distracted. Keep your eye on the ball if you want to succeed with girls.

Such degrees don't mean much.
College is for degrees in science, medicine, and engineering.
Start by working with small businesses, don't aim high until you build some experience.

Degrees matter little to companies. Getting more degrees will not solve your problem. What you need is a good portfolio of work and demonstrate the kind of results you can deliver to employers.

nnDMT is not for me at this time. 
 
It will destroy your material fantasy 

Sex can be done in higher consciousness ways. But few people are doing that.
Most relationships are unconscious and dysfunctional.

It's not about Hitler. Hitler was a product of his culture. And the culture that created him no longer exists in the developed West.

You guys need to start getting used to just socializing with people in general. For the sake of socializing. For fun. It is not so serious.
Baby step yourself up. If you are so nervous at first, then just say something short for them and then wish them a good day!

You can literally just say: ''heyy you look very lovely! Have a good day :)''

From there you can slowly increase the length and quality of the conversation.
This is not rocket science. It is not hard work. It is supposed to be playful and fun.
How would you talk to someone if they were an old friend you haven't seen in years?
Enjoy the conversation.

The only one who ever judges you, is you.

Culture has permanently developed a lot since the 1930's, so that level of oppression and bigotry is no longer possible because people are no longer that racist or hateful.

Only because you are a crazy lib.
In Iran it is illegal for women to not wear a head scarf.
In Afghanistan it is illegal for women to go to high school.

Do you guys even know that if a woman has sex before marriage in Iraq or Afghanistan, this brings so much shame to her family that custom demands that her own father or brother kill her, in order to bring honor back to the family.
That's life in Afghanistan for women. Not your liberal shit.
The Nazis were libs relative to the Taliban.

Human survival has always been more about social skill than physical size.
Which is why women are most attracted to leadership, status, charisma, and social intelligence.
Women aren't stupid. They like exactly what helps their children survive.
Women don't need your muscles, they need your leadership and social connections.

If you're having sex with dozens and hundreds of girls, you're def hurting some of them in that process.
Most PUAs are so selfish and unconscious that they don't even know when they hurt girls.
I'm not saying hurting is mandatory. I'm just saying it tends to come with the pursuit of sex.
Sex is a very corrupting force. Does that mean it is gauranteed to corrupt you? No.

In this thread I'm not telling you how you should live your life, whether you should pursue sex or not.
I only explained the connection between sex and low consciousness.
You do whatever you want. You decide for yourself how ethical you wish to be.

No. It's not the same at all. Serious love and relationship takes commitment and effort. That's very different from chasing after sexual excitement.
Pickup involves effort too, but it's not the same. Being a gangster also takes effort. That doesn't make the activity very conscious.

Many serious PUAs are horndogs with overactive sex drives. They are like drug addicts for pussy, and they need new pussy constantly.
It's like being a pussy vampire.
Similar to how Jeffery Epstein was a sex vampire.
Or they are addicted to the excitement of it. Which is why they are incapable of committing to one girl.