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2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:It's certainly less appealing than otherwise.
Well I'm not going to lift weights just to impress girls. I used to have that motivation, but no longer. @Leo Gura
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@Leo Gura I have a similar frame to you in that I'm very skinny. Do you find that women are often turned off by your skinniness?
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32 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:A vasectomy takes 5 minutes and costs $750.
Have you had one? @Leo Gura
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1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:But at least I know what the wrong thing is, even if I haven't trained myself to fully avoid it. The real problem is when guys do these things and don't even understand that it's wrong.
I do plenty of wrong things. The difference is I become aware of it and strive to correct myself.
@Leo Gura That's good to hear. I look up to you for a reason.
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9 hours ago, Leo Gura said:Even when you think stuff like, "OMG, that girl is a hottie!" That's already warping your ability to relate properly with girls. It's a selfish and immature approach.
But don't you speak along those terms? I mean look at your most recent blog post
You called Jack Black a "fat hairy sloppy fool", and yet you don't even know him. @Leo Gura
If you met him in person, would you have that thought? If so, then your ability to relate with would be immediately warped by your own judgements.
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6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:Nobody who sleeps with 100+ girls is a wise person. This is not a thing to idolize.
@Leo Gura In your view, how many girls should the average guy look to sleep with before settling down?
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2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:I have very low opinion of PUAs. They are hopelessly immature, unconscious, shallow, and toxic people. The more girls they sleep with the worse it is.
Any successful teachers of PUA that don't fit this bill? @Leo Gura
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@Leo Gura Who do you find more admirable? The high status celebrity that has been faithful to the same girl for decades on end, or the highly skilled pickup artist that has slept with over a thousand women and still has yet to settle down into their 40s?
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Look at someone like Lebron James or Roger Federer. These two individuals have extreme levels of status, and yet both of them settled down when they were 16 and 18 respectively (and not with model-tier girls might I add).
I would assume that they have probably slept with less than 10 girls in their life, and yet they seem perfectly happy and don't feel like they're missing out.
I think those are the people to be admired, not pickup artists that have slept with 1000 people.
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22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:Eben Pagan has some top-notch courses and seminars for relationship advice.
How can I access them? His site is down @Leo Gura
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I haven’t read through most of the replies on this thread, so I’m not really sure what drama you’re speaking of. All I know is that I copied the title of the linked article and made that the title of this thread.
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1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:I don't see anyone here taking Sadhguru's health condition lightly.
No one is. @Danioover9000 is simply projecting.
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7 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:so which is it? A discourse of the health crisis, or a discourse of undermining spirituality?
The point I’m trying to make is that even enlightened individuals are vulnerable to suffering if they lose their health. Nothing about that argument is of bad faith, but you seem to think so. @Danioover9000
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5 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:Technically IMO this is a bad framing by the OP
Bad framing in what sense? @Danioover9000
The point is that even enlightened individuals are not immune to the suffering that results from health problems, which is a completely valid point to make. And something that many people need to be reminded of.
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8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:My last girlfriend took a $100k car from a billionaire as a gift.
Did you meet that girl at a club? She must be very beautiful to be spoiled with such a gift.
Seeing an average-looking guy like you pull a girl like that has given me hope that pickup might work for me.
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16 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:Use your imagination. How would you feel if we slowly roasted you like a chicken?
@Leo Gura If I were in a radical state of consciousness that is fully grounded in the infinite self, then maybe I would be immune to that level of suffering (as some of these monks seem to be).
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@Leo Gura Idk what consciousness is capable of, that's why I'm asking you.
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What do you think about this?
2 hours ago, Yali said:Can it get worse than literally burning yourself alive with gasoline? I mean if it's possible for a monk to not flinch in a situation like that, then it does seem as though that monk has transcended suffering altogether.
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@Princess Arabia I define suffering as mental resistance to pain. If I slowly cut your leg off with a chainsaw, you'll feel the pain but you'll also resist that pain mentally.
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2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:lots of practice to sustain.
Yea, it's certainly possible to not suffer minor degrees of pain. But what about severe pain? Like me taking a chainsaw and slowly cutting your leg off.
No matter how enlightened you are, I think you'll suffer mentally if I did that to you. @Princess Arabia
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3 minutes ago, Yimpa said:Just because someone appears fine
I don't think those monks are faking it. They've trained thousands of hours to enter a state of consciousness that has allowed them to transcend suffering. @Yimpa
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Just now, Princess Arabia said:Until then you will fight me to the core.
We're just having a discussion, not fighting. @Princess Arabia
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that's why it's important to have compassion. no one gets to choose who they are.