Chumbimba

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  1. Just curious how long does it take to get a good sustainable business going. Im 22 if I start today could I have an online business profitable by 27-30 ? Where can I learn business principles/ which business I want to start ? do I need a degree ? or would a mentor be better
  2. I’ve hit rock bottom recently. I’ve been homeless and I am tired of being a victim and fucking around with my life. I want to do dropshipping/amazon fba so I can escape wage slavery and really be able to pursue my life purpose like I want. Does anyone have videos/courses/ resources where I can learn about dropshipping or online business as a whole ?
  3. Hey everyone, im a 22 year old college student and realized how important it is to get you finances in order very early. I had a $500 dollar credit card bill (bought books with it) and paid it off. I hear of people having $5000-$30000 in credit card debt or way more and wanted to know how to avoid this trap. Also what would be good to use a credit card for if I decide to keep the one I have. Thank you
  4. Hello everyone. I have considered buying a car for some time now. Nothing flashy or expensive under $8,000 and not an impulse decision since I recently moved to LA and need to get around. I am confused if it is better to finance it since I don't have the full 8,000 and pay the rest off later, or wait and save all my money and buy it in cash. I would like to finance it so I can build my credit score up, but I really hate debt and owing people money and not having ownership and being bound to contracts and shit like that. Any finance gurus on this forum like @Average Investor
  5. Nah, fuck all that letting go buddha shit. Beat her ass. You can let go... let your fist go right to her fucking face.
  6. With myself.. I am going to sixflags here in California all alone. I recently went through a break up last month and so I am going to spend time with myself at one of my favorite places. I got a season pass, season food pass and season platinum flash passes so I am skipping all the lines. I spared no expense. I want to give myself the best and that's what I did @Leo Gura said its weird to go to disneyland all by yourself, but fuck it I am the weirdest person I know. I will update all of you on how it goes.
  7. in order to get into six flags, you need a reservation so I am going this upcoming Saturday, April 10. I will keep everyone updated
  8. Wow.. contemplation is so deep. I contemplated yesterday "What is neediness ?" I didn't get what neediness is but I figured out where it comes from and why I have been needy towards women. Neediness comes from the illusion of lack. Lacking something that you think you need. The literal emotion is emptiness. There was a hole in my soul I wanted to fill with women's validation and attention. I mindfully felt this emptiness and I asked what I lacked. On the surface it felt like I lacked a woman and that if I go do pick up or if I get a girlfriend all my problems will be solved. I dug a little deeper and realized it was not a woman I lacked but I really lacked options with the opposite sex, not being able to attract the women that I want in my life. So I went deeper and asked why I can't attract them, all my emotional shit came up. "I am too ugly", "Women hate me" "They are bitches and whores who play hard to get" "They just don't like me I am not good enough" blah blah blah. I went deeper into contemplating and I realized maybe not only my issue but probably the issue of all incels, redpill, mgtow all those ideologies. The Truth: I don't know how to attract the opposite sex. For my whole life I have blamed women for not liking me. and it took me 20 mins of contemplation to realize that my anger and frustration and lack of results in this area came from my lack of knowledge. My incompetence you can say. The next question I asked is what do I think attracts the opposite sex. What I think attract the opposite sex: I need to be nice to them, I need to impress them and I have to make them like me or they won't like me. I need money, I need status all this shallow shit just to get a girl to like me. I AM WRONG AS FUCK. just incorrect. All these showcase my insecurities. My whole life I would tell people "Oh I know how women work just do this, this and this" giving out advice I didn't really believe and yesterday I was faced how ignorant I am about female attraction and it hurts. It hurts that I have lied to myself this whole time just to fit in. And Redpill, MGTOW, INCELS are angry because of this. Like look at the titles of some of these YouTube channels. I can see the anger and the hatred. I was one of the angry people. I am no longer angry because I understand. My Mission: To learn how to attract the opposite sex. Thank you for listening
  9. So I just saw @Leo Gura video on contemplation and I started to contemplate for 10 mins and already had some deep insight, but how do I know I am not wrong or deluded. Also I feel like I am not contemplating properly. Do you just sit and ask yourself questions and think through and ponder what you are asking yourself? I am so used to getting my knowledge from outside sources its hard to believe myself. Thanks a lot
  10. If I approach 1 girl per day. That will be 30 girls in a month. That's 365 girls in one year, that's 720 girls in 2 years. My objective is not to sleep with them. My objective is to just get more confident in interacting with them.
  11. @BipolarGrowth yeah that's one of my character flaws. Working on it
  12. I just acquired 2 tabs of LSD. I plan on taking one tab alone. I don't know where my setting should be though. I would do it in my room here but I have roommates and I don't want to be really loud or disturb them in anyway so I am thinking about renting an airbnb somewhere but I don't know what to do. I want to be comfortable. I have posters and lights in my room for this one moment haha. What should I do mentally to prepare so I can get the most out of it ?
  13. Maybe psychedelics aren’t for me I’ll probably just stay away
  14. Tested the tabs they wern't lsd so now I am at 0 again
  15. What's up guys ! it has been a while since I posted on here. I took a break from actualized.org content but now I am back and soaking it up even more and came back with some new understanding. I have been thinking a lot about what direction I need to take my life in. I am single, have no friends and I want to go all in on my life purpose. There are a lot of things I think I would be good at but I can't decide on one. I am bound to pick the one that pays the most but I don't know if thats the best option long term 1. Software Engineering - I am getting really strong in python, but data structures and algorithms bore me to death. I don't really know what I am doing and i really don't knw how to progress further 2. Acting - In the last 3 months I auditioned for 4 Roles and so far I am 1 for 3 (The other one TBD). I GOT A ROLE WITHOUT ATTENDING ONE ACTING CLASS JUST RAW TALENT. I LOVE ACTING but I am afraid of getting famous and ruining my entire life and also not making it to the financial status that I want (I want to be a millionaire someday) . I definitely have the personality for it but I am afraid of my future and also the competition is FIERCE 3. Entrepreneurship/ Investing - My friend made $20,000 of game stop stock and I made $40 off of AMC stock which changed my whole attitude towards money. I even thought about becoming a quantitative analyst making algorithms to predict the stock market but I DONT WANT TO SIT BEHIND A COMPUTER SCREEN ALL DAY. Also I started watching shark tank which inspired me to become an investor even more but I have 0 capital Anyway. My vision is blurry. I don't believe I can have my dream life and I am stuck and depressed (kind of) I am tired of working at a call-center making shit money. Thanks
  16. @Etherial Cat The problem is it feels like no women are receptive to my energy except the shitty ones
  17. @Leo Gura I have a belief that it is creepy to approach more than one girl at once in the same setting and that people will look down on me or see me as a creep. Thats why in college I didn't approach at all. I get the girls who come to me and they all tend to be shit.
  18. Yeah doing it is the hard part. BUT ITS ONLY ONE GIRL. but my mind is a bitch and doesent want me to change and manipulates me with fear
  19. Nothing wrong with sleeping with them. That's just not my main priority. I want to create abundance. I just got out of a very toxic relationship and now I am going to fix my insecurities around women. More inner work than just sex.
  20. @Leo Gura big congratulations to you man. I have been watching you for 3 years now. You deserve every single one of your subs. You have changed my life in ways you can't imagine and I am eternally grateful for you and I know others feel the same
  21. As I am honing in my software engineering skills I am considering two possibilities. 1. Freelance and work for myself as a software engineer/ Start my own business within my field right out of the gate 2. Work for a big company. save up a bunch of money for capital, then start my business. I eventually want to get into Entrepreneurship, I just don't know how I am going to bootstrap it Any advice?
  22. I read books, I meditate, journal and currently learning python coding language. I want to buy a Nintendo switch since I havent played video games in a while but the thought of doing that makes me feel guilty. Why do I feel guilty ? is there a problem playing video games ?
  23. Terrible idea. High school is temporary. Life ain’t easy bro at all. It only gets harder. I think dropping out of high school is the worst thing anyone could do because then you LITERALLY HAVE NOTHING TO FALL BACK ON. 0