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    18 minutes ago, Anderz said:

    Regarding Trump, it's not "orange man bad", it's Orange man bad, as in Spiral Dynamics stage Orange. xD I hope Trump is at Turquoise and not Orange, or I have been duped by con artistry. Of course Orange is actually good too, it's just that it's a lower stage of development.

    Orange when taken to extreme leads to selfishness. Selfishness is the downfall of civilization. 

     

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    I have been dealing with this issue for a while now. It happened a few weeks ago when I was sitting in my office and a few of my male colleagues invited me to lunch. I went to lunch with them. 

    When I was sitting and chatting with them, they initially started mocking my hair and then my appearance, really insulting me and calling me ugly and all sorts of names and insulting me. 

    I was weirded out and I left the table. After that incident  I didn't speak to them. But their harsh words still affect me sometimes. 

    Because looks are so intricately tied to self esteem, especially being a woman, it feels like a direct attack on my self esteem. Their shaming and insults have gotten to me. 

    How to deal with situations/people who insult your looks? 

    What mindset do I need to cultivate to face such situations in the future? 

     

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    On 8/5/2020 at 3:49 PM, Preety_India said:

    Why is evil necessary. 

    Evil is necessary for good to sustain. 

    A lesser evil has to exist to suppress greater evil. 

     

    On 8/5/2020 at 4:19 PM, Preety_India said:

    So I'm laying down multiple reasons why evil is so necessary 

     

    1. Evil creates greater good. For example because slavery existed, we realized that slavery was wrong and there was a need to get rid of slavery and create a greater good for the future.. Now we don't need to worry about slavery about slavery because this evil has already been fixed 
    2. So evil is necessary in an evolutionary context to create immunity against it, to afford protection in the future. 
    3. God uses evil to show the mirror to humanity 
    4. Evil helps us appreciate good, glorify good. Like diamonds in the  rough 
    5. Evil helps us come closer to the truth. That truth lies in good. God wants us to come closer to truth and live in truth. He can only lead by experience and example 
    6. Evil helps in growth. Good grows out of evil when evil is defeated. 
    7. Evil acts as a sacrifice. Someone gets sacrifice for humanity to learn a lesson 
    8. More evil gets destroyed every day but new evil also gets exposed and eventually we become liberated of the new evils as well. 
    9. We grow by defeating new enemies every day. 
    10. Evil helps in future survival and evolution because with experience of evil we learn how to deal with the enemy. 
    11. Only through evil we understand why good is important. Thus we understand the purpose of good. 
    12. Evil is like crucifixion of Christ. It teaches us valuable lessons on what we need to learn and what we need to eradicate. 
    13. Certain evils exist to beat other evils. 
    14. Evil brings good closer to Purity. That is good becomes more good in the presence of evil out of fear and the need to grow, it is pushed closer to Purity and transcendence to higher realms in heaven 
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    You really don't want to think that there is an enemy but there is. 

    Those who are against humanity. Those who are against truth. Those who are against goodness. Those who are against true love. Those who are against fairness. 

    They are enemies. 

    And you always had these enemies. It's only you who never really realized that they were always lurking in your shadows. They had to break your boundaries and enter your life to poison it. 

    Learn that you need to get up and be strong and fight against these enemies. 

     

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    At this point he is too desperate for attention and he will blame whoever he can 

    Typical narcissistic move. When things are going bad for a narcissist, they start throwing blame all around to cope with the Insecurity of failure. They will go to extreme lengths to blame many many parties till they exhaust all avenues and reach a point of satisfaction where they feel like they have blamed enough, it's a process of vomiting for them, they have to do it till the end, so that they feel comfortable enough to move on past their failures and losses.