Blueprint >> Male/Female Psychology
Disclaimer: This document is in raw form as I process and distill 4 years-worth of my personal development notes. Expect some typos and cryptic language for now. I will be updating frequently and polishing up.
Prescription: Understand male/female psychology.
Related Concepts: Relationship Abundance
What is Male/Female Psychology?
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Why is it Important?
Intimate relationships are much easier when you understand where both sexes are coming from, what drives them, and how they think. If you don't understand the opposite sex, you are doomed to have nasty relationship problems.
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Male/Female Psychology: Key Points
There is a deep asymmetry in intimate male/female relationships. What men and women want is different and inherently irreconcilable in some ways. The pop-cultural, politically correct notion of fairness and symmetry between man and woman in an intimate relationship is deeply flawed can leads to all sorts of long-term problems and unhappiness. Do not base your strategies for relationship success on this flawed model. The reality is much more complex and interesting.
Men's brains are wired for systemic thinking, understanding how things work. Women's brains are wired for emotional thinking, loving and empathizing.
Men want sexual abundance and easy-going companionship that gives them room to do their own thing. Women want security, leadership, and deep emotional intimacy.
References
- Blueprint, Owen Cook
- RSD Nation, Owen Cook
- Way of the Superior Man, David Deida
- The Red Queen, Matt Ridley
- Sperm Wars, Robin Baker
- My Secret Garden, Nancy Friday
- Redesign your life to align with your purpose
- Mindsets and tools for exceptional success